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Aug 07, 2015, 12:13 AM
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My life is just crazy lately. My brother is getting married next weekend and I will be there for the whole weekend. I am having two female staff taking me and I was told that I will be able to tell them things that I want them to do while down there. One thing is is to stay by the bathroom door while I am in the bathroom. My abusers are going to be there and so will my brother's Dad who tried killing me and my Mom several times. THEN I have no idea but one of my brother's cousins also touched me as a child. She made me touch her and she touched me and she told me that she knew I knew what to do so do it or she would make me regret it. Anyways I will see people that I have not seen since I was like 13 or 14 years old and I am now 30.
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 cakeladie, CopperStar, WibblyWobbly
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Aug 07, 2015, 01:37 PM
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Is there any way you can not go to this wedding? I don't think it's fair that you should have to face your abusers. If you have to go maybe you can just stick close to your staff and try to avoid any contact with those family members.
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Aug 07, 2015, 03:27 PM
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I, too, want to stop you from attending this wedding. Why must you go? This does not sound like a good thing to do. If someone tried to kill you, why do you need to expose yourself? I say don't do it. I don't understand why you are going. Please spare yourself the torture if you can. It sounds just too risky.
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Aug 07, 2015, 03:46 PM
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Don't go.
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Aug 09, 2015, 01:19 AM
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Well the first reason why I am going is that he is my brother and I want to be there for him. Second reason is is that my Mom said if I do not show up that she will not have anything to do with me anymore. Third reason is that my brother does not believe that I will show up when I am suppose to until he sees me there...I don't want to disappoint him.
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Aug 09, 2015, 10:41 AM
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I have two questions... Do your mother and your brother know about the abuse you have suffered from the people who will be at the wedding? If they do, and obviously your mother does know about at least part of it, why, in God's name, would they expect to have you be there?
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Aug 09, 2015, 01:44 PM
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My brother only knows about his dad trying to kill us..My Mom tells me I have to forget what my abusers did to me that is what she had to do.
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