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I posted a thread the other day titled abusive flatmate but I didn't get a single reply. Maybe people think that it doesn't count if it's not your partner.
I was very upset and felt even more alone that no one even bothered to reply. Maybe I should make the situation clear- I rent a room of a live in landlord who want me to be his housewife, sex toy, beating stick. He comes into my room when he wants to. He varies from calling me his tenant, to his girlfriend to his fiancée. He throws my things away and comes into my room when I'm out and moves things around. He offers support one minute then takes it away the next, usually when it's too late to ask anyone else fir help. He is spiteful, nasty and I'm afraid if him. He's threatened to put a hammer through my car windscreen, throw me out- I have no where to go. Every week it's getting worse. I came on here fir some support but as I said no one even replied. |
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Hi. Well the one certain thing I can think of is to get away from there asap. Can you borrow from family or friends to have money to move out? Also could you stay at a shelter until you can move? Sorry no one saw your post.
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Move out asap. Go to a shelter if you have no other place to go. His behavior will probably escalate long term. I would honestly get a restraining order if he tries to follow you after you move out.
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Keep a diary of everything he does. If you ever need to go to the police this will be invaluable.
I also recommend calling a refuge / domestic violence helpline, and see if they can help you escape. These guys look close to you and should be able to help as soon as you ask for it Leeway - Domestic Violence and Abuse Services I hope you find a way out of there ASAP x |
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I did not see your other post. Is there a shelter you can go to until you find another apartment?
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