[black-roses]

Is it normal that I hate an entire gender because of the way my mother was treated by my father. Could this why I believe they are all psychotic evil beings that were created for the distruction of women?

[barbella]

It is certainly understandable. No one wants to see someone they care about get treated in a terrible way (especially by someone who is supposed to love them). black-roses, I don't know you so I don't know if you have a therapist or counsellor to speak with. It can take a while to come to grips with what we've seen as kids. It is really damaging and does need lots of attention. I hope that you will be able to work with someone to try to make sense of what has happened. I am really sorry you had to see any of this. It's just not right. I hope your mother is safe now.

[Septembersrain]

Honestly there are days when I feel like I truly hate humankind as a whole. Many people are very cruel, ignorant and destructive of everything around them.

You have realize though that while there are a lot of lumps of coal, there are a few diamonds to be found amongst them.

That's how I quell my hate. Hate is an ugly, stifling, and emotionally draining feeling.

Do you ever see a therapist to perhaps work through all this pain? I was physically, verbally, and emotionally abused by many men growing up and even into my 20's. However I've come a long way when it comes to fear, hate and other negative emotions.

I still have my bad days but I appreciate my good ones all the more.

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[black-roses]

I do have a therapist and i am seeing her soon I am hoping that I can finally tell her my hatred and disgust towards men she already knows I am afraid of them and gave me breathing exercises to get over it.

[Septembersrain]

It sounds like you are going down the right path. It's not going to be easy but I think you've made steps to address this. I hope you see her soon too and I wish you the best.

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[nicoleflynn]

Hating an entire gender because of what one person isn't logical (it is understandable)...everyone is a person and makes choices how to behave. You can take that anger and make something positive come from it.

[sickofddying10]

Hi...
I suffer from the same prob as u do... but there's something else too... my father is NOT bad.... neither does he mistreat my mom...
He's just like any conservative male... but I hate it....
The prob doesn't end here... I feel full of hatred when any girl or young lady is mistreated in any screen, story or fiction also n I think its a bit queer cause I feel as if the whole thing is being done to me...
Could this b the symptoms of any psychology disorder???

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by sickofddying10

Hi...
I suffer from the same prob as u do... but there's something else too... my father is NOT bad.... neither does he mistreat my mom...
He's just like any conservative male... but I hate it....
The prob doesn't end here... I feel full of hatred when any girl or young lady is mistreated in any screen, story or fiction also n I think its a bit queer cause I feel as if the whole thing is being done to me...
Could this b the symptoms of any psychology disorder???

Well, it sounds to me like PTSD

[Lazarus16]

Remember black-roses, that all things are relative and nothing is absolute. There are good men. I know because I'm one.

All other men have nothing to do with what your father did, it's illogical. It's like saying all food is bad because you hate spinach or all things in life are boring because one bore you. It's the trap of generalism.

[black-roses]

That is very true I can't imagine how much my generalism is making me suffer

[Lazarus16]

Originally Posted by black-roses

That is very true I can't imagine how much my generalism is making me suffer

The good thing is that generalism is curable and with work, you'll be able to heal. Look up how to stop generalising and trust me, you'll find tons and tons of solutions for you.

Good success!