[Butterfly_Faerie]

I noticed now, that I rarely will where a skirt, or a dress outside. Certain outfits I won't put on, they aren't even slutty. But i'm afraid of getting the wrong attention if I'm out in about, Anyone else have this concern?

I just thought about this this morning, not more then 2 minutes ago.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

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[SweetCrusader]

I get like that sometimes, but not always. I woke up one night to find my uncle's face about three inches from mine and he came on to me, and commented on the fact that I was wearing a bra to bed. (I had a shirt over it and was under a blanket). He was naked from the waist down, and I don't know if anything more happened before I woke up. But years later, he started sort of hinting around coming on to me again, and I started having nightmares where I was wearing a skirt and thong underwear and he fondled me- and in the nightmare I thought it was all my fault for dressing like that, for making it so easy for him to do. Although this is a little different situation, the feelings are similar I think. And at my church, we wear dresses to church. The next time I went to church, I felt dirty for wearing a skirt.

So you are not alone in your feelings. I hope you can find a way to deal with them, though!

((((((((((((((((((((Sundance))))))))))))))))))))))))

SC

"Blessed be the cracked, for they let in the light"
-Author Unknown

[Butterfly_Faerie]

when things happened to me I was always fully dressed.

But still with whistles and calls that are sexual, are bothersome, beacause it's disrespectful , and people like that piss me off.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[SweetCrusader]

i was fully dressed too (i think). but it's that feeling like you're a piece of meat or something, right? is that what you're saying?

"Blessed be the cracked, for they let in the light"
-Author Unknown

[Butterfly_Faerie]

Yes, it's an uncomfortable feeling..I guess cause so many things happened to me, that i'm paranoid, well not paranoid that i'm worried that I'll be another target.

Does that makes sense?

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[troubled1]

Hey sweetie,
I know that feeling all to well.... I basically for the first time own a 2 piece swimsuit.... And i love the suit but I get the feeling that I am dirty....That i am doing something wrong.... Ashamed it is a hard feeling to describe i am sure you all know what i mean if you have been through this..... It is not normal but it is there,,,,, love troubled1