[xenko]

How about a thread to write to your abuser?

Dear Abuser(s),

You will never learn. Some day....and it will come....you will be crying....it will feel like the sadness will never end....then you will know how I feel....until that day comes....you will live in ignorance.

[xenko]

Dear Abuser,

Hope you are stuck in traffic for hours or maybe you're going to fly in again?? We know how you like to make a big splash....as if you're so important....dream on....the truth will leak out.....

[xenko]

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You have no right to smile, laugh or be happy because YOU used me to make connections. You USED ME to get what YOU WANTED. You had no thought about what you were doing to me nor did you care.

You are MISERABLE and I hope THE REST OF YOUR MISERABLE LIFE IS SPENT IN AGONY!! THE KIND OF AGONY YOU ARE PUTTING ME THROUGH!!

[leejosepho]

I now understand what drives you, and I hope you might yet find resolution for and relief from your own troubles and struggles.

[xenko]

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You can make all the excuses you want for yourself but all they are, are excuses. You knew exactly what you were doing. You couldn't be that dense not to know or could you??

Speaks so much about the kind of person you are. Treating people worse than a dog.

You can keep hurting me this way because i know i cant change you. And for that i forgive you. I will stay strong through this even though there are times when i feel like i cant. I feel sorry for you that this is the only way you know. But I'll be okay.

[leejosepho]

I defend your personal right to view me and to try to treat me in any way you might wish, but from this point forward I will circumspectly maintain a safely zone so you can no longer get any new **** on me.

[88Butterfly88]

Dear abuser,

I hope you have a terrible Christmas up in hell. I know you're making mine more miserable than it needs to be. Grrr!

-88Butterfly88

You tortured me. This not only ruined my body to the point of needing an amputation, but you also ruined my mind and my life. I'm afraid you'll do the same to other persons, but I can't bring myself to file a complaint, report what you did to the police, or take you to court. Does that make me an accomplice? I hope not.

Please don't ruin anyone else the way you ruined me.

[MtnTime2896]

Dear A.,

Feel better? Did it help you feel powerful? Did it last or are you back to being a miserable bastard? No comment? Good. Stay silent like I did. ****er.

[xenko]

I am so tired of your mindless games. When are you going to grow up? I've been waiting a long, long, time to see you own up to your responsibilities and be a man.

You've probably convinced yourself that because you can buy someone else's affection and smooth talk them that you are superior again. That "high" you're on won't last. You will come sinking down to the gutter again where you belong. It's just a matter of time.

[88Butterfly88]

Dear abuser,

I can't even not think about you on Christmas. You've really done a lot of damage.

[MtnTime2896]

I really hope you're happy. Why? Because then maybe you can stop being a cruel son of a ***** and no one will ever have to suffer from you again. Why didn't you break the cycle? I know you weren't born that way and someone did that to you, too. Why didn't you fight it? Why did you become them?
Thanks for making me so scared of becoming you that I will never have a kid, I will never be comfortable around children in fear I could hurt them, and I will never know what it's like to give my fiance what he truly wants. Thank you. Sick bastard.

[MtnTime2896]

Let me clue you in, you in particular, because you keep on going to this day with me. Imagine this: You wake up screaming, much like you were during a certain event that took place, then people around you don't know what's going on. They look at you like you're insane, going to hurt them or both. People are ****ing scared of you because you go into a defensive fight mode when they just happen to touch you at a wrong time. You don't trust people purely based off of past experience. You can't sleep and patrol your house, just waiting for something to happen again. You almost put buck-shot through your roommate because you're half in/out of a flashback. You have seemingly random bouts of panic that completely debilitates you. You can't work because of all of these damn things. You can't manage to actually feel in control. A piece of you is ****ing dead and the rest of you is still, to this damn day, powerless after what they did.

Imagine dealing with all of that and then to this day having someone (you) put you down and treat you like the dirt they walk on. Imagine that person confusing you and twisting you up enough to just assume that you can't trust your own mind and you're not dealing with years of abuse (and PTSD), you're just emotional and crazy.

Feel this for one ****ing day and tell me if you could keep doing this to someone.

[BrazenApogee]

Dear Abuser,

You're wrong: I have worth, I have value, I am a person.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by BrazenApogee

Dear Abuser,

You're wrong: I have worth, I have value, I am a person.

[xenko]

Abusers:

I hope you are miserable and live the rest of your life in pain. You deserve it!!!

[xenko]

Someone wrote that maybe my abuser was trying to "help" me. If that were true then why didn't they TELL ME. Why wouldn't they think I want help??

I needed someone recently but where was my abuser?? Taking care of HIS NEEDS if you get my drift. If someone wanted to Help me then why didn't they? Instead, THEY CHOSE TO DECEIVE ME, GET INTO MY BUSINESS AND HURT AND HUMILIATE ME.

In my book that's not someone who wants to help me.

[PumpkinPieHead]

Dear abuser,

You stole from me. You are a thief. You stole my dignity and my happiness.

[xenko]

Dear Abuser,

One day you will have to pay the piper.

Your victim of many years

[Adelyn]

Dear Abuser:

You are always right, according to you. I think you are a coward who cannot face himself and cannot accept responsibility for bad behavior. You will never improve. That anger and bitterness and intensity that you carry around will always be blamed on someone else and will never be solved.

[MtnTime2896]

Tell me. Just ****ing tell me what I did! What the **** did I do? What did I ever ****ing do to deserve what happened? Why do I feel as though I still deserve it? What gave you the right to put all that **** into my head?
I stayed quiet. So quiet that when CPS came a knockin' I still kept my ****ing mouth shut. I still didn't say a damn thing about what was happening. Not one damn thing. You know why? Because I still ****ing loved you even when you hated me. Even when your apathy almost killed me and could've several god damn times. And I still wonder, to this very second, what can I do to finally get you to just....

Screw it. It's not worth it. I don't owe you an explanation, let alone the respect of giving you one.

[xenko]

I can't think of much else that you can take from me. I believe you've destroyed every relationship I had. If that was your goal then you are one sick individual. What exactly were you proving by doing this to me?

Does this make you feel powerful?

Did you get all your needs met?

[xenko]

Abusers,

You are miserable low-life's. I wish the worst for you.

Why didn't you pick on someone in your own circle?? Oh, you couldn't do that could you?? They are too pretty. You need her for eye candy. For show and tell.

Me, you just screw without a care. Karma. Karma. Karma. Karma. Right back at you.