[Phoen777]

I've been bullied and abused by all of my uncles.

And three of my aunties.

There is too much to say really.

One of my aunties often laughs at me when I walk past her, another one cuts me out of photos.

Another uncle put me down in front of others.

I could go on and on and on but their is too much to say.

And unfortunately my father is someone who manipulated and controlled me:

I'm seeking to start a business and my father says even after 10 years nothing will have happened even though he does not understand my marketing plan and business model at all.

When my other uncle and aunt's come to my house they talk about my sister and don't acknowledge me on anything.

It's just very demoralising.

[RubyRae]

I'm sorry you are treated that way.Is there a way you can limit the amount of time you have to be around them or can you avoid them altogether?

[Fuzzybear]

[HD7970GHZ]

This is heartbreaking to read... I am so sorry you are in this family. You deserve better!!!! Do you have a therapist or anyone in your life who treats you differently? Someone you feel safe with? Someone that sees what you are putting up with?

Take what I say as a grain of salt...

It sounds like your family is toxic for you. It is a very unhealthy family dynamic and you are taking the brunt of it. You have become a scapegoat / target. It is so painful. I have experienced similar things and the only thing that helped me was doing what was most painful... I had to shut the door. I had to stop relying and associating with my family. No amount of explaining or standing up for myself was effective; they just got worse. It has now been 1.5 years since I have spoken with my certain members of my family and I feel like I am starting to get a bit of footing. I miss them from time to time, but I realize that I am not healthy enough to go back and put up with it. Perhaps in time...

I hope you can find the loving environment you need and deserve.

Thanks,
HD7970ghz