 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Oct 06, 2017, 08:44 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I was 9 and my brother was 15 when we first had sex was I to blame for allowing it
Last edited by FooZe; Oct 07, 2017 at 12:45 AM. Reason: added trigger icon |
 Shazerac
|
|
#2
Oct 07, 2017, 02:22 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
No, you were not, the power differential between a 15 year old and a 9 year old is huge. A 15 year old knows what's right and wrong and what's going on, as well as being much bigger. A 9year old would be very vulnerable with a 15 year old.
You were not to blame at all, even if you didn't outwardly protest, and even if there were some aspects of it that you didn't mind ... not assuming there was but saying if there was it still wouldn't be your fault in any way at all. It wasn't your fault in any way. Big brothers are supposed to protect their siblings from that kind of thing. |
 Cocosurviving, Shazerac
|
|
#3
Oct 07, 2017, 09:11 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
There is a valid reason for the "age of consent" concept. As a 9 year old you were not responsible for your behavior. You are not to blame! It is not your fault!
__________________
 Eat a live frog for breakfast every morning and nothing worse can happen to you that day! "Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be left waiting for us in our graves - or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.” Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged Bipolar type 2 rapid cycling DX 2013 - Seroquel 100 Celexa 20 mg Xanax .5 mg prn Modafanil 100 mg 
|
|
#4
Oct 07, 2017, 09:17 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
That was something that helped me place the blame where it belonged,observing kids that are around the age I was and the age they were.It was a real eye opener for me. |
| Amyjay, Bill3, Cocosurviving
|
|
#5
Oct 09, 2017, 06:58 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Hello there—first I hate that you had to experience this. The situation was not your fault. Please do not blame yourself.
__________________
#SpoonieStrong Spoons are a visual representation used as a unit of measure to quantify how much energy individuals with disabilities and chronic illnesses have throughout a given day. 1). Depression 2). PTSD 3). Anxiety 4). Hashimoto 5). Fibromyalgia 6). Asthma 7). Atopic dermatitis 8). Chronic Idiopathic Urticaria 9). Hereditary Angioedema (HAE-normal C-1) 10). Gluten sensitivity 11). EpiPen carrier 12). Food allergies, medication allergies and food intolerances. . 13). Alopecia Areata |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
