[Arriesparkle]

I don’t know what to do. I was raised in a verbal and physically abusice household. My father was sexually attracted to me and touched me when I was younger. The fear I felt was and is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. My father still ends up at my job and hangs out asking for handouts. He wants to hug me and kiss me on the cheek and stuff and my husband gets mad that I don’t tell him to leave me alone but I’m terrified. I don’t know what to do

[Skeezyks]

Hello Arriesparkle: I'm sorry you are in the midst of this most difficult struggle. I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral. I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I don't know as there is much of anything in particular I can suggest here. Hopefully there will be other members, here on PC, who will have some helpful suggestions. What occurs to me is that this is primarily a matter of establishing & enforcing boundaries. Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on this subject:

https://psychcentral.com/lib/what-ar...do-i-get-some/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/10-way-...er-boundaries/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-ways...ficult-people/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-imp...al-boundaries/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/bounda...d-your-ground/

My best wishes to you.