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Old Mar 21, 2018, 08:44 PM
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My mother says she doesn't break the law, but she does severe emotional abuse, severe emotional blackmail, and of course, stalking. Her stalking is severe too. She keeps saying denials. I think she's getting worse and worse. She's threatened to kick me out constantly. She's like I shouldn't consider them threats, just warnings, like consequences work with me because I can reflect on what made my mother angry, like I'm responsible for her happiness. But I'm not. It's difficult to see how consequences can work with a sane adult like me, all the way down inside of me agrees with it completely.

My mother uses coercion, and sets the stakes to too high.

I tell her I can send her to jail for stalking.

My mother said, "you're out of your mind!"

Well was my mother mistaken or telling the truth?

While I'm confident my mother is mistaken because I do my research, my mother appears to be "1,000,000% sure" (her words, not mine!) she is telling the truth.
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Old Mar 21, 2018, 10:01 PM
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I tell my mother I can send her to jail because she severely stalks, is severely emotionally abusive, and emotionally blackmails.

My mother said, "you're out of your mind!"

Was she mistaken or telling the truth?
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Old Jun 13, 2018, 04:36 PM
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My mother says she doesn't break the law, but she does severe emotional abuse, severe emotional blackmail, and of course, stalking. Her stalking is severe too. She keeps saying denials. I think she's getting worse and worse. She's threatened to kick me out constantly. She's like I shouldn't consider them threats, just warnings, like consequences work with me because I can reflect on what made my mother angry, like I'm responsible for her happiness. But I'm not. It's difficult to see how consequences can work with a sane adult like me, all the way down inside of me agrees with it completely.

My mother uses coercion, and sets the stakes to too high.

I tell her I can send her to jail for stalking.

My mother said, "you're out of your mind!"

Well was my mother mistaken or telling the truth?

While I'm confident my mother is mistaken because I do my research, my mother appears to be "1,000,000% sure" (her words, not mine!) she is telling the truth.
This sound like my two sister and a niece as well as their friend who needs professional help.
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Old Jun 13, 2018, 04:39 PM
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I tell my mother I can send her to jail because she severely stalks, is severely emotionally abusive, and emotionally blackmails.

My mother said, "you're out of your mind!"

Was she mistaken or telling the truth?
No! It not! Someone need to tell my sister friend this!
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