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I don't know if this post is in the correct forum...If not, please do move it mods (thank you
![]() Everything that I read is just pushing me. I'm scared!! Desperate and alone, I'm lost. I don't know what to do. I was a member of a dating site and I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. He was very nice, polite, and he paid attention to me. We seemed to really hit it off, so we met several times within that time frame. Yesterday, I decided that I needed to be upfront with *Joe* about a couple of my big things: depression and my traumatic brain injury. (I didn't want to go into details yet) Joe was accepting of my admission and then decided that he should let me know about his ghost of the past. Joe was frank and upfront.
Possible trigger:
Possible trigger:
UNBELIEVABLE that I was with this guy!!! I have ended the relationship, but I am now kicking myself so hard (I know, I absolutely deserve every little bit of pain). Triggered is an understatement. I don't know what to say or do. I've pulled away from co-workers and acquaintances that are concerned about me. I don't deserve their kindness. I don't know what to do.
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I am sorry this has happened to you!
![]() Of course you are triggered and, seemingly, by everything! The world must seem pretty damned unsafe to you right now. ![]() It's a good thing you've found out as early as you have. Give yourself time to "recover." In the meantime, keep reaching out wherever you feel safe enough to do so. Be very gentle with yourself, please. Stay safe. ![]() WC
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Just checking in on you.
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I’m sorry, how horrible and scary
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![]() Unbelievable is an understatement. Dashed hopes. As well as, close call. ![]() |
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Seriously, I am impressed with you. I hope you can stop blaming yourself for this, because this was all him. |
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