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Default Oct 03, 2018 at 11:41 AM
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My partner will admit that he is has BPD and that he needs help to be able to learn to cope better but he doesn't admit that his behaviour towards me is wrong. His father treated him, his mother and siblings in a similar way and before that his grandmother treated her husband and family the same way.

I get support from my parents and a monthly carers group but I can't open up to them about everything that goes on
Why can’t you open up to them?

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Exclamation Oct 04, 2018 at 01:40 AM
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Why can’t you open up to them?
I've never been able to open up !

There has only been perhaps 2 maybe 3 at most that can see through the painted on smile but even with them I just couldn't, can't open up fully. Apparently even as a very young child I was the same, my mother told me that I had a rag doll that was eventually named ' Agro Doll ' as even before I could speak I used to punch, kick and jump up and down on it until I was exhausted

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I've never been able to open up !

There has only been perhaps 2 maybe 3 at most that can see through the painted on smile but even with them I just couldn't, can't open up fully. Apparently even as a very young child I was the same, my mother told me that I had a rag doll that was eventually named ' Agro Doll ' as even before I could speak I used to punch, kick and jump up and down on it until I was exhausted
I’m sorry, I know it can be hard to open up especially when you’re not used to it You can always open up here though as we are anonymous in this forum

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I’m sorry, I know it can be hard to open up especially when you’re not used to it You can always open up here though as we are anonymous in this forum
Thank you

I have and do try to open up here but despite fooling everyone that has ever met me into believing that I am a confident, outgoing, this is me like it or take a hike person. I over analysis everything and stuggle with self loathing. Probably why I am in the situation I am.

On a brighter note today when my partner was shouting down at me, telling me how I think I am perfect that I don't listen because I think I am too cleaver and all that I actually told him that if I listened to every thing that he says to me I'd have killed myself a long time ago. That actually shut him up

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