[Mosesmutesha]

I have decided to finally tell my story about how I was sexually molested when I was a young boy. It happened when I was seven, or eight. It has been two decades, and I don’t even know if it’s worth perusing confrontation in my case. I have moved on, and now remember the incident as a bad dream, and it is fading away. I have met him thousands of times since then. I haven’t forgiven him and his company like at the funeral still makes me uncomfortable. Even though I am now grown, I still try not to be alone with him. The only thing is that it has affected my relationship with my extended family. I don’t like their family. I do sometimes wonder if it happened to anyone else, but I am too afraid to talk to them. What if I am the only one? What if it has happened to all of us? What if he is still doing it to his children? Either of the possibilities is nerve racking.

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by Mosesmutesha

I have decided to finally tell my story about how I was sexually molested when I was a young boy. It happened when I was seven, or eight. It has been two decades, and I don’t even know if it’s worth perusing confrontation in my case. I have moved on, and now remember the incident as a bad dream, and it is fading away. I have met him thousands of times since then. I haven’t forgiven him and his company like at the funeral still makes me uncomfortable. Even though I am now grown, I still try not to be alone with him. The only thing is that it has affected my relationship with my extended family. I don’t like their family. I do sometimes wonder if it happened to anyone else, but I am too afraid to talk to them. What if I am the only one? What if it has happened to all of us? What if he is still doing it to his children? Either of the possibilities is nerve racking.

I think you should let everyone know about him. If he said something in the beginning start it out like that and see how everyone react to the news. Call rains and set up counseling. Leave anonymous phone call about a predator around children.