[Fuzzybear]

This isn’t one of the memories that regularly plagues me...

I only recently remembered it again

Very unpleasant .... understatement

My “first kiss”

Possible trigger:

It was at a neighbourhood party. I had just turned 16. I was at a (horrible) all girls school and had been “protected” from “boys” and not allowed to go to youth clubs etc...

I was also a “late developer” and the (few) friends I had were mostly also similar

My “first kiss” was at this neighbourhood party. It was a horrible, unknown to me, man, probably well over 50. He went up to me, kissed me, and pushed his tongue into my mouth

The bear cub.
The “ugly duckling”
Blamed
Hated
Violated
I didn’t tell anyone.

If I had told the parental units I would have been blamed for “leading him on”

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

This isn’t one of the memories that regularly plagues me...

I only recently remembered it again

Very unpleasant .... understatement

My “first kiss”

You have all my sympathy; 100 percent of it.

And thank you for always being sympathetic towards other people who went through trauma.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by ennie

You have all my sympathy; 100 percent of it.

And thank you for always being sympathetic towards other people who went through trauma.

Thank you ennie