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Apr 18, 2020, 07:13 PM
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My abusers have told me that I'm dumb, selfish, mean, useless, that I wanted what I got etc
 I believed all that stuff for a long time I still have to readjust my thinking and my perception of myself sometimes...  But then I go to people who are not abusers, and believe what they tell me.. 
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Apr 19, 2020, 01:44 PM
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What are the non-abusers telling you?
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Apr 19, 2020, 01:49 PM
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Apr 19, 2020, 03:30 PM
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You are a strong beautiful bear. Believe that...
 
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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Apr 20, 2020, 12:28 AM
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Apr 20, 2020, 06:51 AM
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ABUSERS are insecure and do "projection"---that is, they project onto others what they feel about themselves. It is never ending, they have to continue to abuse others, to feel better about themselves. Noone has the right to define US....we do that.
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Apr 20, 2020, 01:58 PM
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#8
Apr 20, 2020, 07:48 PM
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I'm sorry to hear they told you that. None of that is true. You are a bear-y awesome person!
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Apr 22, 2020, 02:31 PM
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You are smart, caring, kind, helpful, and you know what you are feeling.
In short: You are a smart, loveable, and good bear!
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Apr 22, 2020, 07:58 PM
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