[RozG]

can't post what i wanna post it would be deleted but why do the damned abusers always have to win

aww((((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))
they don't
Really they do not
I am sorry you hurt
muffy

[Rhapsody]

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Kalamity_Jane said:
can't post what i wanna post it would be deleted but why do the damned abusers always have to win

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It only seems like they do...... as we are usually little when they win.

[RozG]

Rhapsody that's what i meant. they win when you're little then you spend the rest of your life with d.i.d., p.t.s.d etc....and to me that means they've got a lifelong win....if you get what i mean?

((((((((Rhapsody))))))))

[x_BabyG_x]

Seems to me like we, the victims, are the winners here....

I know sometimes it makes us hit rock bottom occasionally, but we have survived through a lifetime of it which shows we have all the strengh we need
babyg xxx

[RozG]

((((((((babyg)))))))) never thought of it that way before, thanx.

[x_BabyG_x]

No worries

it is true though, just that people dont see it when theyre thinking negatively!

babyg xxx

[Rhapsody]

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Kalamity_Jane said:
Rhapsody that's what i meant. they win when you're little then you spend the rest of your life with d.i.d., p.t.s.d etc....and to me that means they've got a lifelong win....if you get what i mean?

((((((((Rhapsody))))))))

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Yes, I understand all to well - just take a peak at my BIO - it shows what childhood abuse leaves in an adult person, a life sentence of hell on earth.

..it's true....

even when they goto prison, they eventually get out....and their lives are better than those they hurt

[bchlyn]

i don't feel very strong tonight...lyn

[Kiya]

"and their lives are better than those they hurt "
such is true for me as well. i hope one day to change that... well, not to say that i will make his life hell like he made mine. but to say that i hope one day i will get to live the life i want to and enjoy.

Lyn..... hang on.... i'm reaching out for you!
Kalamity, we have to believe things will change.

[Cthomas]

Lyn, are you ok today?

Checking in . need to make sure you are safe.

Colleen

[bchlyn]

ty,,,.i had a hard t appointment last night... i am struggling... but ok...lyn

[RozG]

((((((((Kiya))))))))

[RozG]

((((((((Colleen))))))))

[RozG]

((((((((lyn))))))))

[nothemama8]

Dorri, we are the winners because we survived, you must remember that the abuser has to face themseves each day and we get to help others like us, sound pretty positive don't cha think?
Angie

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((( kj ))))))))))))))

[RozG]

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nothemama8 said:
Dorri, we are the winners because we survived, you must remember that the abuser has to face themseves each day and we get to help others like us, sound pretty positive don't cha think?
Angie

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you know...that's something i never thought about before. the one who abused me done jail time and doesn't have a friend in the world. despite what he done though...i don't wish misery like that on him but the man still has no remorse so that's his problem. and you're right...no matter how bad i feel i'm lucky enuff to have ppl who care for me and i've been lucky enuff to have been able to help others like me...both in personal life and in my last job. thanx for those words Angie.

[RozG]

((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))

[chaotic13]

I like to believe that abusers will get what they deserve at some point. If not in this life then in the next.

[Kiya]

yes...we can hope...it's a karma thing

we can only hope....because the justice system in the country sucks at protecting the victims.