[damajdancer]

I went to visit my half sister and half brother yesterday. Even though they are only my half sibliings, I treat them as my brother and sister. And my dad doesnt like that. My dad abused me physically for eight years. He just recently stopped. I thought it was odd but then I saw my sister. She is only four. She had a swelling black eye when i saw her yesterday. I asked her what happened, and she said the daddy was bad. I knew what was going on. My dad only abuses when he is drunk. I had always kept him away from my little sister, but now i feel like this is my fault. I wasnt there to protect her. I feel horrible. What kind of sick bastard beats up on a four year old girl. But then again, what kind of sick bastard beats up on any of his children.

[mtd]

It is not your fault this happened. You didn't do this. But your sister needs your help. Can you call the authorities to get help for her? Someone needs to intervene and break this cycle of violence.

mtd

[damajdancer]

I did try the authorities. But unfortunatly she has my last name. And the police have never helped me a bit. They always thought I was making things up. All because my so called father has a few friends in the police force who agree with his tactics.

[mtd]

Take a picture of your sister and take it to a domestic violence shelter or advocacy center. They can help.

Don't give up.

mtd

[pachyderm]

I agree: pictures are (some) evidence.

[Troy]

One time I saw something that should have been reported and I didn't do it ... then I felt like I was as guilty as the abuser because I didn't do all I could. Even if the authorities wouldn't do anything, I could have done my part.

Sorry that all that happened to you and your family. I wish there was help for your step dad.

T.

[Blue93]

it is not your responsibility Damaj
But yes someone needs to step in.
MTD's idea is a good one
talk to her school, etc as well
at least you know you are doing everything you can

Take care,

Blue

[bchlyn]

if you call child protective services they have to investigate... i think they would have a hard time ignoring a black eye... maybe you both will get validation...just my 2 cents...lyn

[BalishBun]

You know, that really hits home knowing that my husbands youngest is 4 years old. It hurs so bad knowing that you and your siblings have to go through that. I think its great to treat them as full brother and sister, after all, they are.