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Mar 08, 2008, 04:15 PM
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Its officially 6 months since my dad left me.
Just last night a girl I work with asked me if I felt guilt....every second. We had many unresolved issues and hadnt talked much in 3 years (I hadnt seen him in 2 years). I found it hard to forgive him for not standing up to his wife and stopping the abuse we all felt. My sister and I are looking into a headstone for him... My guilt is overwhelming and I feel lost.
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#2
Mar 08, 2008, 04:22 PM
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(((Hallie)))
Much love, support, and sympathies, me dear...
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Mar 08, 2008, 06:47 PM
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hon no reason for you to feel guilty. you did your best. I am so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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Mar 09, 2008, 03:01 AM
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I"m sorry hallie. I want to give you soft hugs. I wish i was there.
(((hallie)))))))))
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Mar 09, 2008, 07:18 PM
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I agree with Bebop. You need not feel guilty. I offer my support and ((HUGS)).
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Mar 09, 2008, 08:44 PM
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#7
Mar 14, 2008, 03:02 AM
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((((((((((((((HALLIEBETH))))))))))))))
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Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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#8
Mar 16, 2008, 02:19 PM
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(((HALLIE))). I am sorry for your loss. I hope you can accept help from your therapist that nothing that happened is your fault, and you have nothing to feel guilty about. Your father was the adult and you were a minor and not expected to play the role of an adult, and take on all the family problems, or guilt of the probblems not turning out as you had anticipated. Take care (((HALLLIE))). Pm anytime. Soidhonia
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