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somebody did something to me when i was young, and now theres certain things i can not do because of it, so how do i forget what happened, how do i get over it.
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for me t is helping... lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Hi,
"get over it" is a pretty tall task. For me, it's like a nightmare I remember, am glad I'm awake and hope I never have to dream it again. But day goes on even after the nightmare. I don't know of any one who just gets over it. Sometimes it's forgotten, especially as children, but once it's out there, it seems to me, something from within pushes, coaxes, yearns for healing. You can get over it if you're willing to do the work, be patient with yourself, be kind to yourself, respect and have other people respect your boundaries. It really is a tall order...but doable. River
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http://www.justthinkin.us/wwmsh/index.html "All of our children are prey. How do we raise them not to prey upon themselves and each other? And this is why we cannot be silent, because our silences will come to testify against us out of the mouths of our children." Audre Lorde |
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Therapy has been a life saver for me. She has helped me understand things i never understood before. She is safe and her office is safe. It will get better hang in there.
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