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Jul 30, 2008, 03:15 PM
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Hello,
Its been over 4 years since i left a guy named Josh because he was abusive. I was with a guy named Mark for 2 years and i was so scared that it was going to go back to the same stuff and it pushed him away because i never trust him. Is it wrong for me not to be able to trust him? |
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Jul 31, 2008, 02:41 PM
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((RaeRae))
It is totally normal to have problems with trust after an abusive relationship. I do believe it is possible to heal and move forward, but it does require some work and having a good T can really help the process. I found myself in an abusive relationship. At first I blamed him, but at a certain point I had to look at myself and ask *why* I put up with all that abuse. I realized I may never be able to change other people, but I CAN change what I will and will not accept in my life. With the help of therapy, I am learning to trust, and to feel more confident in my own worth. Have you considered therapy? 
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