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Old Apr 01, 2009, 05:02 PM
Peter2009 Peter2009 is offline
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hello all! i am new in town thank u to those who listen to me. I am a 25 year old male who is now trying to confront sexual issues. when i was a young boy (around 8) i was sexually abused by an older man. i was playing at the park near my house when an older man came up to me and asked me if i wanted to go and take a piss with him in the woods, i said "okay" and the next thing i know we are deep in the woods and we are touching weeners!! at the time i didnt think much of it, it only lasted a few minutes after which he said "we have to do that again sometime" while i never did see the man again i can imagine that he has abused many children. anyways like i said i did not think much of it at the time and i am not gay but now i find that i constantly think about this and it may be causing me sexual dysfunction of some kind. has anyone been abused by an older man besides me?

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Old Apr 02, 2009, 12:58 AM
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Peter

Are you wondering if other men here have been sexually abused by older men, or does this Q apply to everyone?

If it applies to everyone, I can assure you that there are MANY who've been sexually abused by older men, myself included. I'm not a man though...

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Old Apr 02, 2009, 01:07 AM
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hello all! i am new in town thank u to those who listen to me. I am a 25 year old male who is now trying to confront sexual issues. when i was a young boy (around 8) i was sexually abused by an older man. i was playing at the park near my house when an older man came up to me and asked me if i wanted to go and take a piss with him in the woods, i said "okay" and the next thing i know we are deep in the woods and we are touching weeners!! at the time i didnt think much of it, it only lasted a few minutes after which he said "we have to do that again sometime" while i never did see the man again i can imagine that he has abused many children. anyways like i said i did not think much of it at the time and i am not gay but now i find that i constantly think about this and it may be causing me sexual dysfunction of some kind. has anyone been abused by an older man besides me?

If you are now constantly thinking about it, maybe it is because it is time to address what happened and learn how to emotionally deal with it to move past it.
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Old Apr 02, 2009, 11:10 AM
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hey guys! nice to meet u.... and no im not just loooking to talk to guys ... just anyone who has been sexually abused by anyone. the truth is i didnt even really remember my abuse until recently... i mean it was always in the back of my head but not until i sat down and really tried to recall what happened did i think "wow that was pretty ****ed up"
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