I have a really important question

yooo ok so i have a question
so theres this alter and her name is finni and she makes my heart go but uhh is that normal?? like can alters fall for other alters? does that even happen???

p.s. @ moderators this is just how i type dont judge me

thanks a ton
- birdie

ummm you would have to ask your treatment provider about this. they will tell you if this is possible for you.

theres lots of complicated stuff like how the brain physically functions, dissociation, triggers and lots more, that goes with things like this and whether its possible. your treatment provider can explain all of it to you.

we cant say whether its possible for you. but I can tell you for me and my alters the answer is no it wasnt a possibility.

i've never heard of alters falling in love with other alters.

that's not to say it can't happen- i've heard of other alters being in love with people on the outside (my alter stacy was at one point)

I'm sure it's a normal thing though. I mean you get alters who are brother and sister, mother and daughter or what ever, so why not.

welcome to PC by the way. nice to meet you

I haven't heard of that either. I wonder what function that serves for your system? (rhetorical question you don't need to answer)
And welcome.

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Sorry but, this post jumped out at me. I have an introject that I feel this way about. This particular introject has feelings, thoughts and comforts me when I'm hard on myself or depressed. She boosts my confidence by reminding me of my positive qualities and even fuses with me when I feel unsafe or like the body is in danger. She's brash and confident and silly but, she has a soft side too as a consoler.