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Old Aug 19, 2007, 10:19 AM
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we're struggling and trying to stay afloat. the belief that we are a curse to those to that we meet is being proved over and over the last few days.

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Old Aug 19, 2007, 10:28 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((the constellation))))))))))))))))))))))))))) You are no curse. You are very special. constellation not doing well constellation not doing well constellation not doing well
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 10:56 AM
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bad things happen to those we care about.
so burdened down with their pain.
told thru all our existence it is our fault.
better to not have friends than to cause them pain
better to cease our existence than to cause them to cease theirs.
that has been the truth we were taught.
now we are seeing how true it is....
it hurts so much
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 11:30 AM
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please remember we are NOT in control of other ppl's suffering, or unhappieness
we can only control ourselves, sometimes we need extra help, know we are here for you
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 12:06 PM
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told thru all our existence it is our fault. that has been the truth we were taught.

It is not the truth. It's all LIES. These people LIED to you.

Nothing was your fault. Not one thing.

What would you tell me if I came to you with this? You need to learn to care for yourself like you care for us.

If you cannot do that yet, then let us.constellation not doing well

You are a kind, generous, and wonderful constellation. constellation not doing well
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 01:29 PM
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(((((Reah))))) ((((((Peunia)))))
I guess i would tell you the same thing---that it was LIES--not your fault. That we have no control over others sufferings and that others have had their problems long before they met us.

Easy to say and our practical logical self tells us the above. But we don't believe it. not one word. it gets hareder the ore ppl we meet and care about. their problems, pain, sufferings seem to get worse the longer they have contact with us. we are worried that our friends called to say goodby------it would devistate some of us.

so scared, so helpless
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 02:42 PM
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(((( prism ))))

That's fear whispering in your ear. telling you theses lies. It's understandable to worry about our friends and somehow take the blame for all that is wrong in the world because that's what we were led to believe.

Listen to your logical self. At least hold on to the possibility that it is telling you the truth. At least try. constellation not doing well constellation not doing well constellation not doing well
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 02:58 PM
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it bes willow
i veri sad cuz my frend litl misy say big misy want get ded. lil missy say she git ded to.
naomi say it bes her falt
me to
prism say me lisen to u
it bo ok
vicki say u luv us an u not get ded cuz we frends
by by frum willow
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 04:22 PM
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((((( willow )))))

You are very important sweetie. You have lots of friends here who care about you a lot.

Did you see Fuzzybear's Cave? constellation not doing well

You can go there if you're feeling scared, ok?

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Old Aug 19, 2007, 05:46 PM
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((((((((((( Willow )))))))))))

You are very important and very loved here. Petunia had a very good idea when she said you can go in Fuzzy Bear's cave and feel safe.

Love,

Miss Jan
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 06:41 PM
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Old Jan 19, 2008, 11:39 PM
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has anyone seen or heard from w_i ?

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we are missing you, we wish we could have a long chat again & catch up.
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Old Jan 21, 2008, 04:51 AM
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Old Jan 23, 2008, 04:24 AM
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Old Jan 29, 2008, 01:32 PM
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the consellations have always been helpful and kind to us
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