Don't know how to get him in the mood mentally

So it happened again. I got upset bc my bf still doesn't want sex. I don't get it I really dont know what to do.

Last night we went to bed together and we we're laying together and started kissing him and he went with it he kissed me back little bit of tongue and everything. He did get hard too. Cuz I felt it then I touched it, But anyway he ends up saying okay lets just get it over with!!!
I didn't want to do that. That just makes me feel like ****. So I got mad and stomped out of the room. I came back and I said what is wrong what is the problem now. I've tried so hard not to push it on you and to not be clingy. And you we're turned on so what is the problem. He says I wasn't turned on just bc its hard doesn't mean I'm turned on..... He says maybe he needs mental viagara cuz he can't get in the mood... I just don't know what to do. I want to beg him to go off suboxone. But I feel like he will probably relapse if he does. Does anyone know how to deal with this??? Relationship wise or getting off the meds alltogether????

I can tell you from my own experience the more you pressure him for it the less he is going to want it.... if he is having problems that require him to take medicine that is effecting his sexual desire then he needs your support as it is already hard on men when they cannot perform sexually.

Thanks for your reply. Since I posted this he finally told me he's dpressed and it's hard to describe the way he is feeling. So i'm thinking that and his meds combined is our problem now. And I have told him now that he has finally told me what is going on that I will stop pushing it

Good to hear that you two talked about this... now that the doors to honest communication are open - do not let them close.

Good Luck...

I'm gonna try not to let them. He will be coming up tonight, and I will be taking the boys to their dad's tommorow so hopefully we will be able to talk and maybe start something to help him.