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Default Mar 01, 2011 at 09:26 PM
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i like to wear it sometimes... usually i just wear a long t shirt and call it good, but i do own some, mostly "dominatrix" appareal dont no if i spelled that right lol. but i got some lacy ones to, some times i will go all out with my boyfriend, who i dont have no morelol, but i will mostly go in a tshirt and sweats, very unsexy lol, but i was told befor that men find women most sexy when there without makeup and not trying to be sexy, does this make sense? has any 1 heard this lol? ya wearing lingerie is fun but depends on mood lol.

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Makes plenty of sense! THere are times I feel sexier just loungin in something comfy. Guys probably notice our self-confidence when we're feeling good in what we have on, no matter what it may be. Not sure about the makeup. Thats prob cause I never wear it anyways lol

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Yes, I too like to wear sexy underthings even though no man has seen them for ten years now. One of the times I was in the psych hospital they asked me if I had a boyfriend because I guess they weren't used to seeing sexy stuff but it was all I had. (The sleepwear covered me decent though so nobody saw my sexy stuff except the people who checked my belongings on admission)
I might pack a few things extra if I have to stay in the hospital in the future
Always fun to make the staff curious!

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I go thru times of the year (like now, when the cold weather is starting to diminish), and I want to set aside some $$$ for myself, and go to the mall and walk into Fredricks (since Victoria's Secret doesn't carry my bra size), and just start looking and finding bras that are comfy, yet sexy.

I personally feel like I have a secret, that no one else knows about, when I put on a new bra, or a new pair of underwear. It's a boost of self esteem, and it's just fun, you know??

The only thing that sucks is that I have to go to Fredricks and spend about $30 a bra for something that gives me the comfort AND support I need. I wish I could find that combo at places like Walmart!!! LOL

My husband says that I don't need to wear expensive lingerie to look cute. He likes me in a white tank top and my sleep shorts. I keep reminding him that his eyesight is diminishing....
Finding bras & lingerie does seem to be hard. I'm soooo jealous if you have a Fredrick's nearby. I've visited the site alot Feeling like I have a secret makes it so much fun. Mind if I use your response for the man if I ever need to in the future if I ever need to?

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Default Mar 08, 2011 at 02:34 AM
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LOL! Sure! feel free to use it!

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Default Mar 08, 2011 at 08:03 AM
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I had to buy new bras yesterday, and I specifically made a point of buying a really pretty lacey one.

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I had to buy new bras yesterday, and I specifically made a point of buying a really pretty lacey one.


Good for you!!

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Default Mar 18, 2011 at 11:56 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one
I'm actually quite petite but I still order my lingerie online because its cheaper and I like getting mail. Yay a present to me!!
Also its kind of fun because occasionally my boyfriend will get to the package first and open it and it gets the mind racing. haha
But for the most part I just buy them for me, to make me feel good. Its extremely liberating to prance around your house in lingerie.

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Default Mar 19, 2011 at 01:49 AM
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This is a rather odd post, but I was curious. Do any of you splurge or purchase the sexy stuff that boosts your self esteem, although most of the time we are the only ones that will ever know about the items we are wearing

I seem to enjoy shopping online to find things like that when I start to feel like I'm in a downward spiral. I don't usually have the guts to spend so much on them though. Does it seem silly to want to have sexy lingerie and/or undergarments when all they're worn for is to boost our esteem, if only in our eyes?
I DO!! I love matching bra and panties... and I'm a "DD" so I can't wear cheap bras. I buy mine at Lane Bryant, when they're on sale. And buy the matching panties if I can. I don't know if it boosts my esteems, per se, but I just like knowing that if the paramedics came, my mama wouldn't be embarrassed.

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Default Mar 20, 2011 at 01:37 PM
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Smacky, your comment on feeling liberated for prancing around in your lingerie reminded me of a conversation I just had with a friend of mine...

We're both engaged, and she recently had a bachelorette party, so we were talking about wedding lingerie. Apparently, there's some company that has a "bridal" set, with a veil, and a tutu-esque skirt and bra and it cost about $200. She said "At least it'll give you something fun to wear when you're home doing the dishes, because no way would anyone buy that and just wear it once!!"

Teeheehee!!

I wish I had more fun under-roos to wear, I just have trouble justifying it when money is tight. I generally just try to match my bra and underwear. Not so sexy, but best I can do right now
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Default Mar 20, 2011 at 07:24 PM
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RomanSunburn; Not sure I could ever clean house in lingerie that expensive! But then, I'd never splurge that much. And your not alone with cutting back on the fun underclothes. I say it doesn't have to be a set or matching to be sexy.

WolfsGirl; Lane Bryant Rocks! The bogof sales are when I love to restock. I miss out on the panties due to the common size And almost always have to have the bras shipped. They hardly ever have my size in the stores. The thought of wearing something sexy, and having to go to the hospital had never really crossed my mind. The paramedics will think I'm insane due to all the laughing I'll be doing if they ever have to come again

SmackytheFrog; So true about it being fun getting packages/mail. There are so many sexy things online that I wish I could order. I've had such bad luck with bras, that I stick to Lane Bryant. If they don't happen to fit, I can at least take them back to the store. As soon as I get my own place for some more privacy, I'll be back to my old habits of lounging/cleaning in lingerie

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Default Mar 20, 2011 at 07:55 PM
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The last set I bought the bra was really poorly made *sadness* but I like the skirt and for like $5 what can I really complain about? ^^;; Overall though I find buying babydolls online has been my most secure endeavour. Nothing's been wrong with them yet.

Unfortunately though wearing lingerie has become soley a me-for-me thing. The one time I did try to surprise the bf and make my demands known he took way too long (10 minutes cuz he was playing a pc game) to meet me upstairs and I got discouraged. Haven't been brave enough to try again since. Is it weird that I seemed to develop a complex that even me in lingerie isn't as desirable as the pc?

On the bright side I DO still love lingerie!

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Default Mar 27, 2011 at 10:45 PM
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Sure do.

Although sometimes I buy pretty things in case I am in a car accident and so that the medical folks don't think I'm some kind of scrub for having ugly undies. hahahahahahahahahaha
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Default Mar 28, 2011 at 06:05 PM
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Makes you wonder what our mothers did to us that we all like to buy cute/sexy underroos for the EMTs! Wonder how much underwear they actually see and how much of an impression is really leaves on them! Teehee!

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Makes you wonder what our mothers did to us that we all like to buy cute/sexy underroos for the EMTs! Wonder how much underwear they actually see and how much of an impression is really leaves on them! Teehee!

Hahahah! Underroos! Do they still make those? Mine were Wonder Woman.
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Default Mar 28, 2011 at 09:27 PM
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I know seriously. If I'm ever in a car accident and need the EMT's the last thing is I'm going to be thinking is "Good thing I put on my Victoria's Secrets".

I do remember how I was embarrassed I was when I had a giant cut on my but (very long and sordid story) when I basically had to go to the hospital Urgent Care Centre every day for 5 days to get it looked at, cleaned, and redressed, and there I was one day bending over a bed, with my pants and underware down around my ankles, and I remember thinking gee I wish I was wearing nicer underwear. Like the Dr. really cared. Funny how our mother's lessons stay with us.

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I was a paramedic for several years in the early '80s and nobody had memorable underwear. What I do recall was an unconscious alcoholic who had run out of booze so he drank his AquaVelva aftershave. His breath smelled exactly like the aftershave.

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Default Mar 31, 2011 at 04:22 AM
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wanted to add.... in my marriage, i bought lots of lingerie trying to re-kindle something... in my relationship, now, my bf says lingerie is just "gift wrapping" and it doesn't matter to him what i'm wearing, so when I buy it, it's for me. just me.

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The last set I bought the bra was really poorly made *sadness* but I like the skirt and for like $5 what can I really complain about? ^^;; Overall though I find buying babydolls online has been my most secure endeavour. Nothing's been wrong with them yet.

On the bright side I DO still love lingerie!
Hi Smacky! Just curious if you have any suggestions on which online sites are better to check into babydolls on. I just wanna find something cute for me to wear around the house. But haven't had much luck finding any I like.

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Default Apr 05, 2011 at 05:21 PM
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gees how i envy you all, i wish they made sexy incontinence pants!!!! even feminine ones would be an improvement on the big ugly grey and white unisex ones that you get over in England!!! think kids nappy but bigger without the funky pictures! now don't your old comfies seem to look better!!!
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gees how i envy you all, i wish they made sexy incontinence pants!!!! even feminine ones would be an improvement on the big ugly grey and white unisex ones that you get over in England!!! think kids nappy but bigger without the funky pictures! now don't your old comfies seem to look better!!!
Hi yellowted. I'm not sure exactly what type you would be looking for. But I did a few searches, using sexy or lacy incontinence panties, and there were some pretty good ones. Not alot of help probably, but I thought I'd mention it.

I've been looking for something new for myself for awhile, but nothing seems to be what I'm looking for. I sooo love the corsets, but the sizing is to dang hard to figure out

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