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Old Aug 18, 2011, 10:22 PM
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I have 32B and was teased for years. I think the teasing from immature guys/girls is the problem and NOT our bodies. Some men (and women, depending on their sexuality) like smaller breasts. Forget the media and forget the haters. Women are beautiful no matter what their size! Flaunt what you got, big or small, because you are a beauty, lady!

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Old Aug 27, 2011, 02:23 PM
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I'm very large chested and plan to get a reduction when I'm done having children. I envy women who can wear tank tops or do exercise or wear bikini tops without all the uncomfortable bounce. Don't even get me started on the back pain either. You should embrace what your body has and try to look at the benefits. For me I try to focus on the fact that my crazy size proportion makes my natural waist look tiny.

And word of hope! A lot of women find their breasts get bigger after they have a baby, and breastfeeding helps a bit too!
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Old Aug 27, 2011, 02:51 PM
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I haven't read all the responses, but I just wanted to say that, as a large breasted woman, I wish I was less endowed. Many men I know say, honestly, that they prefer smaller breasts, because they remain perky and pretty for a lot longer, and because they're more delicate and nicer to play with. The fact is, some men like big boobs, some men like small boobs. Some men see the beauty in the different sorts of breasts. My mother was a small breasted woman, and (having seen her with her top off quite a lot when I was younger) I can categorically tell you that she was beautiful. As a girl I wanted nothing more than to grow up and look like my Mum in every way. (Obviously something went very wrong...)

Don't worry about your breast size. Women are always disatisfied. I wish mine were more like yours, you wish yours were more like mine... men just enjoy them. Relax, I'm sure your boyfriend is telling you the truth when he says that they're perfect. They're just right for your body, and he can see that. I wish I could persuade you of the fact, but your body type is one that's very much admired, and has been throughout history. Rejoice in yourself... you're beautiful.
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Old Sep 01, 2011, 11:24 PM
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One thing you can do to boost confidence is go for styles that compliment smaller breasts. There have been times in history that small breasts were preferred to compliment fashion.

Lots of men like small breasts. Trust me. Not to be rude, but itty-bitty-titties are just as sexy, and there are plenty of celebrities who aren't afraid of theirs!

http://www.popsofa.com/wp-content/up...-knightley.jpg
http://images.starpulse.com/Photos/P...r-movie-02.jpg
http://stbjp.msn.com/i/CE/388F9D5F1E...E3B6282B67.jpg
http://loveashley.net/2010/07/01/gor...small-breasts/

I would honestly see natural smaller breasts than implants any day. I can see getting implants if it caused a person a lot of distress because their boobs were not the same size, if they had a mastectomy, but just having normal smaller breasts... why? They're lovely!
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Old Sep 04, 2011, 06:25 PM
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I don't think it matters who is envious of who.
I don't think it matters what the opinion of the average male is.
I don't think it matters what society sees as "ideal."

I don't think a woman's breast size should be the deciding factor of her sex appeal and/or worth as a human being.
I think what matters is is how we view ourselves - in spite of criticism, in spite of compliments.
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Old Sep 05, 2011, 04:27 AM
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I was a 36A until I had children. My breasts never went back to their pre-pregnancy size. I am a 40C-D now. I preferred it when I was smaller. It is really a hassle to exercise and find a bra that is comfortable and provides adequate support when exercising.
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Old Sep 11, 2011, 10:04 AM
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I agree with those who mentioned being comfortable with our breast size is more about accepting ourselves than anything else. I'm a 34B. Never wanted bigger breasts. I always though big ones would get in my way. Over the years I've gotten teased about my breast size. I finally came up with what I think it the perfect response "I've never gotten a complaint from anyone who counts." That usually shuts 'em up right away!
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Old Sep 11, 2011, 10:37 AM
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lizards have breasts?!
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Old Sep 11, 2011, 12:29 PM
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lizards have breasts?!
LOL!!!! Good thing they are small or dragging 'em across the ground would be painful!
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Old Sep 14, 2011, 09:21 PM
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Be yourself, like yourself. Do that and no one who matters will care what your bra size is.
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Old Jan 28, 2012, 09:14 PM
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I've got "perfectly average boobs" actording to some. I'm a 34/36 b/c depending on the make of the bra, and time of the month. Honestly I could keep the B i just wish my ribcage wasn't so big!

My girlfriend has really small boobs, I think 34a, maybe smaller. I love them! She only wears a bra if she's dressing up for me, and I'm always enviouse. She's so beautiful and I couldn't imagine her any other way. I honestly love her boobs, and am so happy that they're so small... I won't go into details

As for my own size, I wish I was smaller if anything. I wish I could go braless, and I wish I didn't have to worry about sag. And from an actors perspective it would make it a lot easier to fit into different rolls. I would love to play some of the guys parts they give to women, but I'm just big enough to need bindings...
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Old Jan 28, 2012, 10:15 PM
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I think that too much is made of breast size. I am on the small side but my husband still finds them sexy anyway. Some guys who fixate on breasts may be disappointed perhaps but I have plenty of other nice features to keep them interested
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