[LostInThought92]

My ex cheated on me, we broke up almost a month ago (for those who didn't read my other post about it) he left me for the girl he cheated on me with.(we were not together but talking about it) I fell for him hard... and it hurts,but I am over it all. I was and am so tired of trying to make things work and he could care less. He dragged me along with him ... I was his replacement and I am sick of being an option. I hate men sometimes.... so here I am ... alone on VDAY

[LiteraryLark]

Be your own valentine, or get a few girlfriends and have a girls night. It's time to pamper yourself, rejuvenate, and move on with your life. Don't worry about finding another Valentine, just enjoy the single life while you can.

[LostInThought92]

Okay Will do..... I wasn't looking for another Valentine. I need to relax and no date for a while.

[JLarissaDragon]

I am so sorry that you have been betrayed and it certainly must not feel good to be treated like someone's spare equipment. Fortunately there are many men who are not jerks and do have the capacity to love and commit. It sometimes takes them longer and they have to learn how to treat a woman. Right now it is best to take care of yourself and if possible spend some time with some of your girlfriends. Be good to yourself so you can heal from this and move on to someone better. He didn't deserve you anyway.

[LostInThought92]

Thank you, I know I do it is just hard . but I know I will eventually heal..

So Valentine's Day came and went this year once again, and I am still single. I haven't had a date since Oct 2011, but not having a date didn't bother me as much. It felt like any other day. What pisses me off the most with Feb 14th is the way the media acts like if you don't have a significant other on this day, you feel like a loser. I couldn't go anywhere or see anything without hearing about it. I'm not going to feel like I'm not worth anything because of this. Why only this day do singles feel discriminated against?