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View Poll Results: What is the youngest age you remember masterbating? | ||||||
4 to 5 | 22 | 17.89% | ||||
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6 to 7 | 20 | 16.26% | ||||
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8 to 10 | 23 | 18.70% | ||||
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11 to 13 | 30 | 24.39% | ||||
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14 and older | 21 | 17.07% | ||||
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Other | 7 | 5.69% | ||||
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Poohbah
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3 years old, maybe?
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9 I think. By 10 it was definitely happening. At first I did it in the living room... my mother told me "stop it, you'll make yourself sore." I am very embarrassed to this day.
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#24
I voted 4-5 because that's how old I was when my mother kept scolding me for touching myself. It wasn't for self-pleasure at that time, but just exploration and curiosity. Nothing more came into my mind than if I were playing with my hair or my glasses. The first time I actually self-pleasured was age 13. Right around both of these ages, I had recently been molested by an adult.
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#25
11 here.
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13 i remember rubbing against objects when i was 5-6 never knew it was masturbation. i got called a nasty ***** by my mom for doing it at 13 accused me of having sex i wasnt having sex at 13.
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What a cool topic! I love masturbating. It's great stress relief. I first did it I think around 4 years old. I didn't know it was sexual. It was just something that felt good.
Unfortunately now, the meds have left me with a diminished sex drive and I'm not living on my own the way I like. It will soon change though. Then I'll get right back to it on a regular basis. __________________ "When the gulf between All the things I need And the things I receive Is an ancient ocean Wide, wild, lost, uncrossed"__Morrissey |
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#28
Ha ha ha , who has time for this?
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#29
Ha, either 3 or 4. Yes I was getting there at that age. Mom caught me and told me it was bad for me but I kept doing it anyway, just was worried for a while that it was going to physically make me sick from what my mom said. Was raised in a conservative household so masturbation was a sin. But I was obsessed with it and even did it in school in k and 1st grade. Got into my teens and felt so guilty that I would cut myself afterwards. These days I know it's not wrong so I'm good now.
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#30
Does anyone know if it's normal to masturbate before being sexually active and/or before puberty in mentally healthy people or those who have not/are not been/being abused?
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#31
It is normal. I was not sexually abused by the time I was masturbating.
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#32
This is honestly not meant to be rude but i meant in people without any mental disorders.
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I was around 8 or 9.
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ehavior-normal |
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#35
Thanks googley that's exactly what I was looking for
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#36
My mental disorder has Nothing to do with my masturbation habits.
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#37
Please don't misunderstand me. I meant absolutely no offense. I was asking because I from a curiosity of how the brain works. I wanted to know specifically because I wouldn't be surprised if mental disorders had an affect. So I wanted to know the flipside. I shouldn't have said anything.
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#38
I have memories of masturbating when I was 4 or 5. It wasn't the first time. I guess I must have started much earlier but I don't have those memories.
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#39
About 10 is when I first remember it. Not too long after I was abused :/
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