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#1
Jun 29, 2015, 01:01 PM
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Hi,
So, I'm having my first gynecologist appointment ever today and I'm really, really nervous. I've been googling what's supposed to happen and the more I read, the more nervous I get. Some sites said that the gynecologist will ask if I have a history of sexual abuse? Is that true? I don't want to talk to a stranger about my past, then there's the issue of them feeling me up, which is something I'm also very scared for. I'm seeing a female doctor, but I'm still very, very scared. Will I be allowed to bring my teddy bear? For comfort? I'm very scared. I read what to expect, but I'm still very nervous about the whole thing. I'm 20 years old, btw. |
 JLarissaDragon, Travelinglady
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Jun 29, 2015, 02:32 PM
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I've never been to the gynecologist, but I need to go sometime soon. I've been putting it off. The thought about her touching me there and maybe put something in me, it scares me so much.
I think you can bring your teddy bear. I think the gynecologist wil have had lots of women who are scared to go and to be touch there. You can tell her that it's your first time and that you're very nervous about it. She will be careful. |
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Jun 30, 2015, 01:20 AM
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It is not really all that scary, though I do not really care to have my privates exposed and examined by anyone. Relax if you can and realize that a pelvic exam is important to your health. Basically the gynecologist will ask you a bunch of questions about frequency and intensity of your periods and more than likely will examine your vagina using an instrument called a speculum. It is not particularly comfortable but is not as bad as it sounds. If you want you can probably take someone with you, especially since it is your first time. Be upfront with the doctor about your fears and you will be treated
respectfully and gently Good luck -- it is all part of being a woman |
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Aug 06, 2015, 04:15 PM
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They do ask about past abuse but i think if you voice your discomfort then they'll respect that.
My first gynecology visit was a great experience. I hate being touched and talking but the doctor made me feel very comfortable and joked around to ease my discomfort. I've had a better experience there than seeing my primary care person. I don't think they would mind you bringing your teddy bear at all. Bring whatever you need to make yourself feel comfortable. I hope I was of help. I've only been once and I was incredibly uncomfortable. It'll be ok 
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Aug 08, 2015, 10:10 AM
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Since I am an older lady, I have been through my such exams. I didn't find the first one all that unpleasant. I definitely prefer female docs. It's really not as terrible as it sounds. Bring Teddy along and tell your doc about your nervousness.
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Aug 08, 2015, 04:58 PM
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Me too traveling lady . I have a female ob /gyn . I just had surgery down there too . I asked for a female ob /gyn surgeon and I got one .kori its no sweat off a ducks back. the doctor will ask you routine questions about your medical history . the exam is fairly quick .
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Aug 11, 2015, 07:09 PM
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I actually have a male ob/gyn and hes great. It will never ever be a fun experience but its not that bad after the first visit when you learn what to expect. Be anxious is normal I think.
Its ok to be nervous. You will be ok.
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Aug 11, 2015, 07:22 PM
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My doctor is a guy and he is really kind and caring. I hate going and I have not gone in a long time. But my doctor delivered my 2 children and helped me through some tough times. I had several miscarriages and pre cancer cells. My daughter came 7 weeks early and we did not know if she would live. He checked everyday with the NICU unit to check her status.
They usually have a nurse in there with you and they explain everything. Let us know how it went. Good luck
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Aug 13, 2015, 04:08 PM
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Yes, how are you?
I have had some decent male docs and males delivered both of my children, but from years of experience and many docs, females are more sensitive overall.
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#10
Aug 17, 2015, 06:42 AM
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I am doing okay
The appointment went okay, but as it turned out, I had an STD and had to get it treated and it was a horrible experience because the "treatment" hurt really badly, But other than that it went okay. I was able to ring my teddy bear so I had something to hold
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 *Laurie*, Travelinglady
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Aug 18, 2015, 03:32 PM
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At least you are now getting treatment, so it's a good thing you got checked out. Thanks for letting us know what happened.
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