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Jan 16, 2016, 12:18 AM
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Okay I'm 41, and I've rarely dated so I need some tips. Main question is sex, how long do you wait? I kind of feel like a teenager about it. Do you even wait at all? It's not like guys care, and I'm generally horny as hell and the only reason I do care is because I don't want to appear slutty. What do average people do when it comes to sex and dating?
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Jan 16, 2016, 04:45 AM
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Three dates or more.
I would suggest many more but as you have said your horny that wouldn't happen. Anything less men will think you #### everyone you meet. It depends on wether you are looking for a relationship or not? If you just want a #### go for it straight away. Using condoms of course. Bearing in mind he might never contact you again. Double standards but it how it is. Sent from my SM-N910F using Tapatalk |
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Jan 16, 2016, 05:07 AM
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I dated my fiancé for around 3 months. We wanted to be friends first. We only went for it when we determine we are in love and are serious. We are plenty horny. Lol I think even if you are horny you can control yourself. With your bad experience with men (I can relate) it's wise to wait as long as possible
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Jan 16, 2016, 04:39 PM
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Gah, I don't know. When it feels right? For me, I think I tend to end up having sex after being with a guy for about a month. So I'd probably agree with the 3+ date rule mentioned above.
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Jan 16, 2016, 06:28 PM
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I had sex with my husband or our fourth date. It sort of just happened. I felt head over heals in love with him the day I met him, but in retrospect I think I would have been better off to wait. My faith tells me that sex belongs ion a husband-wife relationship. My body and emotions had different ideas. Sex is never really just recreation though and you want to make sure that he is really the man you love, otherwise you cheapen and complicate your friendship
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Jan 16, 2016, 08:43 PM
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What kind of relationship are you looking for?
My advice is if you want a committed relationship is to wait. Someone once said...love will wait, lust won't. What would you tell your daughter if she asked your advice about boys and sex? If I were dating I would wait because I want the guy to be into all of me and not just sex. I would want it to be meaningful and special relationship. |
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