I ask for your support and understanding..

I am tired.. if you see my other posts.. perhaps,, you know that..

My body... may I say ...... that I am tired of my body being an "object"... from early development at 10 - and large breasts - thru slim.. overweigth, dealthly thin thru all the phases.. an "object.".

Not safe even from other women.. attacks.. did no one stop and think - did I want to be this size.. nooo.. if you asked me.. nooo...did I want to be an "object"...

Yet strangely.. on the inside.. I am the same person..

Yet... no one wants to know "me". They make "assumptions" based on the size that I am at the time...

Does anyone understand what I am trying to say? I am the "same" person.. no matter what my size.. no matter what my cup size.. I am the same person..

I just can't take it anymore..

[okiedokie]

Hi FW!
It's me again! Now, you're going to think I've been stalking you all over the boards. muhahaha......

All kidding aside, you do sound very tired. You sound tired of everything. I'm so sorry.

I agree that it's crap that those of us with big boobs have everyone talking to our chests. It's just not right! Everytime I read one of your posts, I see we have more in common!

Alright, you know I care about you. I will quit stalking you for tonight.
XOXO,
Okie

[Raynaadi]

I understand Freewill.....feels like we're just a vessel sometimes, doesn't it?

I have big boobs too, I hear you, I am having mine reduced as soon as we sell this blooming house. I am only short, I get sick of comments like 'nothing grows in the dark and I'm surprised you don't fall forward.

sigh

jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo

ohhhh jinnyann.. bless you..

the guys at work used to joke about.. falling down.. and well the boobs.. breaking the impact.. and me boushing right back up.. grrrrrrrrrrrr.. to them.. oh so funny.. especially when you are the only one there with boobs..

well I guess they have man boobs..

[Maven]

Man boobs are not attractive.

[Pita]

One of my best friends - a man - always jokes that he needs to borrow one of my "over the shoulder boulder holders" (bra). And the sad thing is - if he was a woman he would need it. So sick.

[MyBestKids2]

(((((((((Freewill))))))))

you have my support and understanding and gentle caring thoughts.......


Dee

[skittles]

i dont have big boobs but i watched my cousin go through the same thing u guys r talking about.. i used to get so mad at guys when they said things to her like that......she would kinda laugh it off but deep down it did bother her....

[Maven]

I don't mind big boob comments most of the time (sometimes, though)...it's when they make sagging boob comments that hurts.