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Dec 21, 2017, 09:37 AM
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I have a delima. I have two sexual partners and have had both for the past 10 years. One I love very much and the sex is great. we have great conversation and our interests and goals are completely in line. The other I do not love at all. I do care about him and want him to be happy and such. However, he is an epic underachiever and has no desire to do better. Sex with him is earth shattering!!!! and even that is an understatement. I have orgasms with my primary partner but it is a very safe experience (for lack of a better description). While as with my secondary partner it is multiple mind blowing female ejaculating orgasms that let you know that you have been proper f***ed. I have never had sex like that before meeting him and wish that I could somehow splice the two together. I try to restrict myself from him but end up being a complete ***** if I don't have him. I am marrying partner number 1 in 4 months and have told partner number 2 that we will no longer see each other but I am not sure that I can keep my word on that. Has anyone else experienced something like this situation.
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Dec 21, 2017, 01:03 PM
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Nope. Can I ask if they know about each other? Is there any way you could get married and have a poly or open relationship and continue with both men?
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#3
Dec 22, 2017, 10:31 PM
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Jan 06, 2018, 01:29 AM
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Say something soon.....or forever hold your peace!
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"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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Jan 24, 2018, 12:08 PM
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So how did things turn out for you?
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"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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#6
Jan 24, 2018, 01:42 PM
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marry the first one and keep the second as a secret friend with benefits. i can tell from your description you are a incapable of living without both of them after a ten year history of being with both of them.
don't fool yourself and dump number two as you will go crawling back in less than a month. too much history to forget |
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#7
Feb 24, 2018, 01:00 PM
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Could you start learning about sex with your first partner. There are educational books, workshops, tantric practices - it could become a journey of fun and communication. I like to think of sex as a sacred life force, full of funny turn-ons from childhood, to surprising finds now. I like that it teaches me about myself deep down underneath all the layers of civilisation and morals.
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Apr 09, 2018, 12:21 PM
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I wouldn't get married yet. It isn't fair to the partner you marry. Not a way to start a life together by not being faithful.
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 *Laurie*
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#9
Apr 09, 2018, 12:48 PM
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I've never been in that situation, broche, but it sounds to me like the only way you can completely get free of man number 2 is if you cut him out of your life completely.
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