how do i know if i'm a hoe or not?

three keeps calling me it tonight, i dont know if i am one or not

Heya, sounds like somebody is either jealous, possessive, or just that type of judgmental negative not nice at the moment person who needs instant gratification.
I have no idea what the context of the statement was, but if it's just to get a reaction, just ignore, and although it goes against many gut instinct desires to tell this not nice person their business,
ignoring them puts their ego where it should be....questioning if they should be trying to tear you down instead of lift you up. Nobody deserves you if they do that.

three is the nasty voice inside my head

"Hoe" is usually just something mean to say to someone. But it actually means a women who gets paid by men to have sex with them ( a *****)--and I doubt you're that!

I don't believe that any woman (or man or any gender) is a "hoe." That accusation doesn't exist in my world and it never should have existed at all in the world we all share.