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Old Jul 23, 2008, 01:51 PM
happyme32 happyme32 is offline
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I am a 32 year old mother of 2 DD. I have very healthy sexual desires. However my husband does not. I believe in keeping him happy and plan weekend for the two of us. I love to have sex with him. We have been together for 11 years. My problem is that he would rather have sex with himself. YEA! I said it. He likes to watch porn and pleasure himself. I get sooooo angery. I am lying in bed and would love for him to come and have wild or not wild whatever sex with me. But he chooses the porn. I don't know what to do. I have actually had the thoughts here lately about finding me a sexual partner on the side. Can I cure him from the porn?? I have tried everything. Dressing more sexy, planning more sexy time. I have told him I want more sex. DON"T know what else to do.

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Old Jul 23, 2008, 03:22 PM
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I go thru pretty much the same thing as you except my hubby doesn't do porn. I have to make the first move 99% of the time.
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Old Jul 24, 2008, 11:46 AM
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Yeah, Bebop has a good point. I've found in most my relationships I am the sexual dominate one and have to basically pounce my prey..heh. For me, I do have to make the first move. If I'm in bed I'll just get grabby...if you know what I mean. Instead of "asking" for it....just get it for yourself.
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