[Reina-Rena]

Before I continue with my story, I would like to state that I have been diagnosed with OCD. My mind sometimes makes me believe that I have done things that I have not. When I cannot remember something, my mind automatically makes me assume that I played out the worst possible scenerio. Im sorry if this gets a little long...

So, one day I was coming home from school-riding on the bus. There is this boy that also rides the bus and ever since I have known him, he has always gotten on my nerves. Me being me, I try to be kind to him, despite his perversion and rudeness. I have continually tried to be kind to him for about 2 years or more now. He has had a crush on me for a while now, but I already have a boyfriend and even if I didn't, I would never go out with this boy. Anyway, on the bus this boy asked me some kind of feminine question or something...(My mind is a little foggy...I can't remember exactly how this played out. But as I said earlier, when I can't remember something my mind automatically makes me assume that I played out the worse-case scenerio.) The conversation had something to do with tampons. I honestly don't mind if a boy ask me a feminine question; as long as he takes it in a mature manner. (I should have known better than to get my hopes up with this boy though...I should have known that he would take it pervertedly.) I told him that "Some girls think that tampons are uncomfortable, so they wear pads. When I first tried to use a tampon-even a small one, I cried because it was painful for me." After I told him this, he starts to make perverted comments about my statement. Im not going to state what he said, but you could probley guess (stupid, stupid perverted boy!) Anyway, where I have OCD my mind is trying to make me believe that I was telling this boy feminine things because I was trying to be flirtatious or something. My mind says things like "You probley just told him that so he can think such and such about your body (feminine areas...)."or "You were probley trying to flirt with him and see his reaction." Can someone please lend me some advice? I would really appreciate it. Please help me deal with these stressful, unwanted thoughts-making me believe that I have done things that I have not.

[Rhapsody]

The best advice I can give is to stay away from this boy as I feel he will only continue to emotionally insult you if you continue to befriend him.

[FooZe]

Originally Posted by Reina-Rena

Anyway, where I have OCD my mind is trying to make me believe that I was telling this boy feminine things because I was trying to be flirtatious or something. My mind says things like "You probley just told him that so he can think such and such about your body (feminine areas...)."or "You were probley trying to flirt with him and see his reaction." Can someone please lend me some advice?

I'll tell you in a moment what I think you should've said "to him", but first this important note:

Depending on whether you thought he was up to getting it or not, you would've been saying this either out loud, or with your "mute button" engaged so that only you could hear it:

"Oh, I'm sorry! For some reason I thought you were mature enough to handle that."

[Heartachehannah430]

OMG WHAT A JERK! I honestly can not stand people like that. I agree with the other people on here. Just stay away from him. Somebody needs to tell him to GROW UP! I try to just ignore people like that because it makes me so uncomfortable and angry!!! But you know as well as I do that it's not that easy to ignore crude comments like that. I feel for you, I know how idiotic guys can be at times. Like I have said, as well as others who have replied, just stay away from him.

[Reina-Rena]

Thanks everyone for all your help and advice! Its so sad how gross and perverted some boys can be, isn't it? I haven't spoken to this boy in a while, and Im not planning on it either. I think I have given him enough chances to try and grow up, don't you think? Thank you so much everyone!