so tired of faking it for my boss...

i hate my bosses wife and i hate him...

every time i see her face she looks down on me, it's written all over her face...she acts like she's so above me...the other day i was challenging her because my paycheck was wrong, and she yelled at me calling me a liar infront of the secretary...i was beyond embaressed...well turns out after she checked her records, i was right and she had written my check out for the wrong amount and i was right...the ugly whench never ever said i'm sorry for calling me a liar...then came in the office the next day smiling saying hello to me as if nothing had ever happened...

her husband the owner, has berated me and put me down and talk all kinds of crap about me behind my back to my colleagues...it all gets back to me, he to never apologizes for saying the hurtful things he says...

any advice on how to deal with a office environment that is hostile and the bosses have nothing but negative crap to say about you?

I wish I know! I mean people can be weird when money/business involved. All I can say is I kinda know how you are feeling. I was bullied by three women in a old workplace. I was living in the UK at the time. One of the women didn't like Americans (yet would't say so). the next women my boss was trying to force her to step down and to replace her with me (they didn't back me up much). The third women wanted the job the boss was trying to place me in. I went about 3 months like that before I flipped out. I almost walked out of the job. I don't think that is a good idea but maybe start looking for another job and try to think how to get around the stupid boss who can't keep his month shut and be nice.

It's often not a very good dynamic in the work environment when the boss and spouse are both working in the company. I bet it is a small company so HR-department wouldn't be helpful. I would try to hold on to the job (to avoid bad references for the future) but start looking for another job because you can't win in this situation.

You have two choices: 1. Go to HR or two 2. Look for a different job. Best of luck.

Lots of books out there on dealing with difficult people. Use those, but do yourself a favour and get a new job as soon as you can. Keep in mind your skills in dealing with these jerks will be looked on favourably later as you tell the story with tact and not getting into the disgust that you, I and any sensible person may feel on hearing about these twits. I hate your boss and his wife, too, btw.

great advice ladies