After 8 yrs, still can't stand her

I used to work with a woman that side lined me. No one believed her accusation. But then after I left that job, she still urked me by saying something to or about me. Twice! I just saw her at my local Panera. Every emotion came back. 90 minutes later, I'm still thinking about how much I don't like her. I just want to scream! I just can't let it go how much of a idgit she is and I wish I never met her. Fortunately, I'm not the only person who feels this way, I was just the first to admit it. I'm like the Kramer in the group I've been able to let a lot go in my life from people I worked with but this woman. I'm internally screaming right now. Anyone had or have a person like that in their professional circle? She's like a bad day... always in the shadows. Can't shake her!!!

What is your reason for not liking this girl? It seems you're kind of obsessing about the hatred you feel towards her. If she's just a mean, bad person then I understand. But if she's just there and you dislike her then it's possibly your own problem. I often get easily annoyed or angry with people I work with but that's because I'm the new girl and they're straight up bullies. Others even warned me about these women when I started working there. It really effects my self esteem and when I have to interact with them at work I get severe anxiety. I get along with men all day long. But working with all women can really suck!

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Ativan 1mg PRN
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Think you missed my first line. She accused me of something in a professional setting that wasn't true (luckily I keep all emails and had back up). Then when I left that job, twice, continued to say stuff about me. I heard about it from colleagues in my field. I work in immigration. My work can make or break someone. In the first case, a person was given 48 hours to leave the country. She said my advice led to that. It didn't, she just didn't want to take the fall. I had already been in the field for 7 years and she was new to it. My name and career was on the line and I wanted to protect it. But I would never make someone else the fall guy for something I did. Everyone in my field knows that I'm very honest. I have no agenda. So, in professional circles, me and this woman are not friends. Her presence makes me hot I intensely dislike bold faced liars, who do anything to get to the top. Even a boot to the face.

Oh sorry I didn't catch that. I can definitely relate! This girl I work with has accused me of many things that were very untrue. All because she's friends with a person outside of work that I don't get along with. My last attempt for peace was to write her a letter and explain that what she thinks she knows about me is all false. She really makes my job hard and I cringe when I'm in the same room as her! It's kind of sad that we let one person make or break us but as for me, I can't get over it. Oh the things I'd like to say/do to her!

Trileptal 600mg BID
Buspar 45mg
Seroquel 150-300mg for sleep
Ativan 1mg PRN
Vyvanse 70mg
Risperdal 4-6mg PRN

I don't get msgs unless the other person using tapatalk app!

I have two friends who have mental disorders and work in my field. We are each other's support from time to time. We are all on medication too. One trait I see among us all is the 'niceness' and wanting to keep the peace. I think people, who have bad intentions see this as a weakness. They want an opportunity to make us look bad and since they think we are weak, jump at the chance ... smile and walk away. It is true that in this world, people who suffer mental health issues are far more the victim than the aggressor.

Right on point! I often feel taken advantage of for my problems but lately I've been trying to speak up for myself more. I work in a hostile environment full of estrogen and gossip and it often flat out ruins my work day. Why can't we all just shut up and get along? How old are we now? I think this girl I work with knows about my BP from another person we know outside of work. She is often rude to me and treats me like a baby. I do my best to avoid her but I often day dream about going off on her lol.

Trileptal 600mg BID
Buspar 45mg
Seroquel 150-300mg for sleep
Ativan 1mg PRN
Vyvanse 70mg
Risperdal 4-6mg PRN

I don't get msgs unless the other person using tapatalk app!

I can definitely understand how you feel here! I work with a woman who "never does anything wrong". She will point fingers and put the blame on everyone else. She is also the first person to go running her mouth about you if you make a mistake. It annoying! I've learned to just tune her out and do my job. It's hard but well worth it. I can't stand the drama!