Financial support by SO

I felt that other people might disagree with me and think that he should give you 25k because he is rich. Some people believe that rich and wealthy should give money away just because they have a lot. But in my experience if people don’t want to share their money, they don’t. That’s why I thought my opinion will be unpopular. I actually was wrong about it as everyone pretty much agrees with me on this thread, so my opinion turned out to be popular.

No, no assumptions were made by me at all . Just going strictly by what you post. And I very much put myself into your shoes. If I was in your shoes, I’d give up on this guy and his money at this point. I’ve met men who didn’t do what I expected. Waste of time. At some point you just got to move on especially if they were abusive.

I totally understand that it’s upsetting that this man treated you poorly for years and now refuses to help with money.

I am not saying you shouldn’t be upset or have no rights to ask for money. You have good reasons to be upset and are within your rights to ask for a loan to be forgiven. My point was that sadly other people don’t always feel the same way we do. He doesn’t seem interested in giving you that money and I don’t know how much you can do about it.

Maybe go through legal system showing that you are unable to pay it back due to disability? Maybe just pay him tiny amount here and there? People rarely change. He doesn’t treat you well and doesn’t sound generous with money, that’s just who he is. I feel for you. It’s sad all around but that’s just how it is. He is who he is.

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