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Originally Posted by meander
Anyone got any advice on how to stop thinking about someone that you shouldn't be? I met up with an ex the other day to catch up when he visited my city, and it was fun (no lines were crossed) but now he's returned home, and I feel.... weird. I don't want anything to happen there (nor should it, as I have a bf who I am in love with) but I just can't get him out of my head... Ideas for distraction mechanisms? This will go away eventually right?
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Allow yourself to think about him, no laws broken there, I'm sure you still hold postive feelings toward him as we don't just switch on and off emotionally as cut and dry as you may like it to be.....the more you tell yourself not to do something, the more you do it...