[nothemama8]

One of the ppl in my center that I operate has a living boyfriend, he is off the wagon again, she doesn't think we know. Problem 1. Her pharmisist (sp) brings her meds to her home and here, he was just here He refuses to deliver to her home now because her boyfriend tells him to f off . She needs these meds more than this man what can we do to help her?
Angie

[Kismet]

Can she go get the meds from the pharmacy herself?

[nothemama8]

Pysically unable to far away also,
he was warned by Dr to stop drinking as he's diabetic and the last time he was in he almost died, was in ICU for a full week and bleedinghe says he has to drink cuz of Agent Orange in his system he's making up excuses

[Allan]

If the pharmisist can deliver them where you are at, is there a way that she can pick them up there or that someone there could deliver them to her? She would also I feel have to maybe hide them from him so he does not start taking them if they are any kind of meds that he thinks he can: so called get a high off of. I know people with agent orange and have been around that, my brother for one. As you have said, I believe it is just an excuse for drinking. Just my opinion is all I can give. Wish I could give you more advice. Also if she comes into you center maybe she can pick them up then if possible.

Allan

[nothemama8]

Yes the druggist bringds them here now because her boyfriend is verbally abusive towards druggist, we are worried for her because she make excuses for him, and says he can't help it, with her dx she can't afford to be under this type of stress
Thanks
Angie

denial hurts everyone, doesn't it, angie? i hope she is okay...that's a scary situation. pat

Longer term.....maybe you can help her find an Al-Anon meeting near by so she can find people who understand her situation with the bf?

em