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Old Jul 15, 2009, 06:24 PM
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EVERYTIME MY KIDS HAVE LEFT TO GO AWAY LIKE A TRIP I GET THIS RUSH OF FEAR SADNESS ABANDONMENT AFRAID NOT GOING TO C THEM AGAIN.I STOP CRYING FOR DAYS.WELL MY 15 YEAR OLD WENT ON A SUPERLINER TRAIN TO CHICAGO.GREAT CHANCE TO C THINGS SHE IS GOING TO WORK IN BROTHER IN LAW MOVIE THEATRE. SHE WAS SO EXCITED ME NOT SO MUCH. IT GETS REALLY BAD AT NIGHT .
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Old Jul 15, 2009, 07:25 PM
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I know how you feel, I use to do this really bad. I would just tell myself that everything is going to be ok. Did she take a cell phone with her so that you can check on her?
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Old Jul 15, 2009, 09:08 PM
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know exactly how you feel but try to think how good this experience will be for her
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Old Jul 16, 2009, 07:08 AM
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EVERYTIME MY KIDS HAVE LEFT TO GO AWAY LIKE A TRIP I GET THIS RUSH OF FEAR SADNESS ABANDONMENT AFRAID NOT GOING TO C THEM AGAIN.I STOP CRYING FOR DAYS.WELL MY 15 YEAR OLD WENT ON A SUPERLINER TRAIN TO CHICAGO.GREAT CHANCE TO C THINGS SHE IS GOING TO WORK IN BROTHER IN LAW MOVIE THEATRE. SHE WAS SO EXCITED ME NOT SO MUCH. IT GETS REALLY BAD AT NIGHT .

Hi I could have written this post. I also suffer greatly like this regarding my children. I have gotten a bit better now and try to tell myself that these fears are mine and my children are not feeling the same fears I am feeling, they are fears I had myself as a child. I have to talk these fears through though with my therapist, not once, but many times. If I didn't I'd miss out on just enjoying my kids enjoying their lifes and I was afraid I'd pass my insecurities onto them also.
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Old Jul 16, 2009, 07:40 AM
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Tgirl I know how you feel, used to feel the same way when my daughter was away from me. Very difficult.
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Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Old Jul 16, 2009, 11:10 PM
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