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Jul 29, 2006, 01:19 PM
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hi everyone, i have been asked out tonight to a stag party, and i am feeling very uptight about going because i dont know the stag very well and i only know a few of the ppl going,
we are going into the club at about 7.30 pm ( about an hours time) then we are heading off bowling at 8pm then after that ( about 10.30 ) back to the club...... this is the first time i have been out without my wife for nearly a year, i am scared ,
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Jul 29, 2006, 03:28 PM
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Hi there,
I'm sorry you are feeling scared and uncomfortable about going to this stag party. Is it a must that you go? I wouldn't go if I didn't feel comfortable, but there have been times where I thought I'd have a horrible time going somewhere and it turned out to be great fun in the end! I think it all depends on you as an individual. I would weigh the options and then go from there. Some people would probably suggest you go just to get out of your "comfort zone", but I think you should do what you feel. Whatever you choose, you have my support! By the way, if you don't mind my asking, what does your wife suggest? Sujin 
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#3
Jul 30, 2006, 11:58 AM
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When in DOUBT...... leave it OUT!
LoVe, Rhapsody - 
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Jul 30, 2006, 03:05 PM
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Dude, you are most likely going to end up with strippers...end of story.
If you want strippers slinking around you, offering to give you "something"...then go. If you are not comfortable telling them, no I'm not interested, then...stay home. Simple! |
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Jul 30, 2006, 05:30 PM
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Jul 31, 2006, 06:22 PM
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thank you all for your replies , i did go out ( no strippers ) at first it was hard and i found that i was very nervous and kept very quiet, but after we started playing bowls i relaxed a bit and started to enjoy myself , i had a few adult pops (beer) and think it helped me to go out again?? but not sure.....
sujin...... my wife sugested that i went but leave if it got to much for me , she was working .......
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#7
Jul 31, 2006, 06:30 PM
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Kudos!
I have learned that you can't let anxiety control you that you need to control it. If you would not have gone then it would have won and just fed the fire of the anxiety. It is good that you gave yourself and out and that you could leave when you wanted to. I am glad to hear that you had a good time. Way to go! 
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Jul 31, 2006, 06:36 PM
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wonderful! i'm so glad that you were able to go and have a good time! you beat the demon!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#9
Jul 31, 2006, 07:01 PM
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Way to go, man!!!!!!!!!!!
((((((((((((((( therealme ))))))))))))) |
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