Every time I have a couple of really good days I start to feel like things at home are going pear shaped. This morning there is a lot of aggression from my hubby, he annoys us on purpose to try and get a laugh somehow. He will be nasty to me and my daughter will tel him to stop it. Then if I tell him to just leave me he'll get the kids on his side agianst ME. I feel so frustrated because I am trying to keep calm, relaxed and happy. He will slate me in front of the kids and look 'the poor me'.
Everyone seems to want him to stop this behaviour, he refuses to stop irritating people even if we ask him to stop. If anyone else does it he goes mental and starts swearing and is completely unreasonable.
We are struggling for money, when we shop he just picks out stuff he likes, if I put anything in the trolley there is a price tag on it. Sometimes this triggers me, as guilt is an everyday feeling and i'm trying to stop feeling guilt all the time. If I mention it I just get a put down.
Why can't anything be easy.

Jin xoxoxoxox

[Juliaspavlov]

I hear you Jinny

If its ok to say...when my hubby does things like that
I call him a FAT COW...or a GOOGY EGG...
because I don't like to swear
but he swears at me ....so I'd like to GRRRR with you
is there a smiley for that?

hope you can find some cheering up things.
Kind thoughts to you Jjulia

I just turned quiet this morning, and I was rounded up on again by daughter and tony saying I'm quiet. I told them I feel apprehensive of saying anything today because of the response I get. Seems I cant do anything right sometimes.

thanks for caring, hugs my friend, Kerry xoxoxoxoxo

i do that exact same thing when things go sour.....i just clam up.
not the best thing for relationship but no other choice sometimes.

[wickedwings]

((((jinny))))