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Old Mar 17, 2018, 05:07 PM
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Maybe it's just my anxiety but I feel hated. I don't want to talk about why I feel like it.

I want to know how overcome it.
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Old Mar 17, 2018, 05:35 PM
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You cannot overcome a problem if you do not address it. You need to understand why you feel this way before trying to fix it.
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Old Mar 17, 2018, 05:57 PM
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You cannot overcome a problem if you do not address it. You need to understand why you feel this way before trying to fix it.
i feel anxious about people's critism

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Old Mar 18, 2018, 09:33 AM
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Nobody likes criticism, that’s a normal reaction to receiving something negative. The most i can do is to say don’t let words get to you because what others think doesn’t matter at all. Its about your life and they shouldn’t get to have a say in what’s good or bad about it.
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Old Mar 18, 2018, 09:35 AM
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Do you mean you feel anxious, hated, when people criticize you, or do you mean you feel hated when people are just looking at you? Because feeling hated or judged in a negative light for no reason, is one of the symptoms of social anxiety. Not saying you have that but looking into how people cope and manage with social anxiety, could help you to overcome the feeling of being hated.
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Old Mar 18, 2018, 12:29 PM
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Do you mean you feel anxious, hated, when people criticize you, or do you mean you feel hated when people are just looking at you? Because feeling hated or judged in a negative light for no reason, is one of the symptoms of social anxiety. Not saying you have that but looking into how people cope and manage with social anxiety, could help you to overcome the feeling of being hated.
I do have social anxiety but it's not for no reason. I've been trying to get over it with coping skills. Maybe it will go away.
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