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I know this is kind of personal...I'm incredibly nervous and anxious...But I had sex with my girlfriend with out a condom on...Only for like...2 min...I didnt ejaculate in her or anything like that ( and I dont know what I was thinking...i dont know why we did it with out a condom) but Then after I was done I thought " what about pre-ejaculate?" and Started worrying...Now she hasnt had her period in a long time and shes a few days late, and thats FREAKING ME OUT!! what do I do!?
She usually gets it at the last week of the month and shes a few days late. We did it a week ago from today. |
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hey it's alright have her take a paternity test my sis freaks out about that stuff maybe once a month but she's ok i don't think your g/f is pregnant but try and be safe a pregnancy test should be her first step then go from there
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She is probably just late. If she is nervous as well, her body will definately know that and periods can change because of that, mine has.
If she doesn't have her period at all, get a pregnancy test. They are pretty cheap and easy to use.
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That is scary though. I hope everything turns out.
Cyran0
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Hi NON...why don't you have her get a "clear blue easy" at home
preganancy test....Its automatic results and will you won't be left in that Anticipation mode sort of speaking....ok...?
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I should but I'm terrified of the results.
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Take a deep breath and have her take a pregnancy test ASAP. I know, easier said than done. I have been there myself and the anxiety of waiting to find out was harder for me than the knowing and I've had the outcome come out both ways. Anyway, it is too late now, but if you have another oopsie remember there is always the morning after pill.
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Possible but pretty small chance:
http://www.birth-control-comparison.info/withdrawal.htm Try to stay away from the "what if" thinking until you all know. Not a whole lot you can do about it right now and worrying won't affect the outcome one way or another, will just upset you.
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Shes not pregnant!!!
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YAY! okay now dont make that mistake again!
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I NEVER will!!!
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