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Aug 16, 2008, 06:25 AM
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TOO MUCH ANXIETY TODAY .......................
I JUST WANT TO GO TO SLEEP UNTIL MY KIDS ARE HOME SAFE I CANT STAND THIS FEELING IN MY STOMACH ..... GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I HATE BEING ME    
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Aug 16, 2008, 06:36 AM
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The anxiety you feel right now is totally understandable as your children are off doing something you are not sure about. Also I would think this has brought up past memories of when things went badly wrong for you. That won't happen to your children. You are allowed to feel what ever you need to feel, it's not wrong but use all the coping strategies you know to get through this. Keep yourself busy today and use distractions so that you are not totally immersed in the anxiety all the time. ((((((((((( jinnyann )))))))))))))  Take care.
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Aug 16, 2008, 06:50 AM
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oh Peg thankyou so much for understanding .... bless you
(((((((((((((((PEG)))))))))))))))))))))))))))TY much love Kx |
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Aug 16, 2008, 07:55 AM
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Isn't it hard to try to keep calm especially when loved ones are off doing what they feel they must do and you have no control over their experience? Anxiousness surrounding that is quite understandable. Pegasus is right....do whatever it takes to safely work through the time until they are safely back home again. Good thoughts sent your way!
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Aug 16, 2008, 09:55 AM
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I tried to call my daughter and hit dads number instead, havent heard from him since i went to see step mum in hospital agesa go.
He asked me how i am then went off making me feel guilty saying i never called him when i came home from holiday .... i told him he dcould have called me .....  he started getting angry so i told him i wasn't going to argue i needed to call my daughter and he went all wierd so i put the phone down .....I'm 43 and he always makes me feel so guilty ...... he is retired and has a new car and is quite capable of coming here to see us but choses not to ..... we always go to see them, call them ..... if it wasleft to them to get in touch (dad and stepmum) years would roll by. This hurts as my mumis out of my life ...... My dad and step mum go and see my step sister and her kids all the time, they even go to see my step brother and my dad doesn't even like him (he told me this). So i feel just great that he has no interest in my kids........ My step brother and I are in touch all the time ..... we both hurt at the way we are treated by my dad ...... i think my t would be pleased i told my dad i wasn't going to argue today ..... my dad can be very cruel with his words, i didn't give him a chance.  Jinny xxxx my kids are safe, we're picking them up in 30 mins   gonna give em such a big hug .....Jin xoxoxoxoxoxo |
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Aug 16, 2008, 03:53 PM
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Very cool that you told your dad that you weren't going to argue - you are an inspiration.
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Aug 16, 2008, 03:59 PM
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((((((((((((((( jinny )))))))))))))))
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Aug 16, 2008, 06:50 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((9Fuzzy)))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((Cedars)))))))))))))))))))))))))) thankyou so much ....i dontknow about being an inspiration, i think i'm just tired ofbeing second best,third best even .... i could NEVER treat my children like he treats me and mine .... We've all had enough ....Kerry xoxoxoxoxo
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Aug 17, 2008, 10:57 PM
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((((((hugs)))))))) I know what you're going through
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Aug 18, 2008, 05:15 AM
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i can relate too.
i've had to recently speak to my dad, and he is always concerned about himself - not others. he can't even call and say - sorry you are sick - or better yet, don't call, send your wife out to buy a card ... that would be great since he doesn't get around much. but nothing ... it is hard to take rejection, but i have my whole life. it's easier when i don't deal with any of them, except send cards on holiday and birthday to one parent only now. why go thru the crappy treatment that these people dish out - heck, it's not worth it. some people cannot change. at least we have a life and people who aren't afraid of us and how we will treat them. love, night xoxoxoxoxo the kids will be fine, it's us - we worry too much. my kid was visiting, went out one night, i couldn't sleep till she came in the door ... i quickly became an actress too, lol, because she would be insulted at her age that i was pacing the floors - even sent my fella out in the car to check on her - i am sooooooo bad, i know. thought you'd get a kick out of that one. (;
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Aug 20, 2008, 07:57 PM
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hey there friend, hang in there.
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