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Please beware this could cause a trigger (I dont know/cant see the trigger icon)
A good friend of mine has been suffering from Cancer for sometime, he died this week and I have been meaning to see him for the past two weeks and I NEVER MADE IT GRRRRRR....., I want to talk to him but I can't ![]() I feel so guilty not getting to see him I've not been able to sleep properly I've been awake for what feels like 30+ hrs I've been using the site alot today to try and distract how I feel, but everytime I settle and when I Leave the site to try and sleep the anger/guilt just comes back. I just dont know how to settle !!! Could do with a hug Last edited by Polperro; Feb 14, 2009 at 09:38 PM. |
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(((((((((((( polperro ))))))))))))))
I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Something that has worked for me in the past with the kind of emotions you are feeling is to write a letter to him, I know you can't give it to him but maybe it will help you to get your emotions out. Sorry I don't have any better advice, here are some hugs. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Gimmeice Thankyou for the advice, in a way I've already done that I was writing a letter to him but sadly never got round to finishing it at times even the smallest task takes an awful lot of effort for me to do.
But hey I got about 4hrs sleep last night so thats a bonus, do not feel quite so emotional this morning but still feel pretty crappy but without the really bad lows so far. |
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I then joined the military and was in for a long, long time. Was stationed far away a lot, and it was hard to get to see her. When she passed away I hadn't seen her in 8 years. Hadn't talked to her in 2 years. I know your pain, and am so very sorry. What helped me, I talked to my mother, she told me Grams knew I loved her and that she was at peace at her impending death (she knew it was coming). That helped a lot. Yet, I still cried a little, because I was pissed that I hadn't talked or seen her in years, but was comforted by my faith, that she was now with God in a better life...I have a very strong faith, and I know she's in place where pain and sorrow and disease ... all that ... don't exist anymore, and that really comforted me, as cliche as it might seem. I hope you feel better soon, if this person was a true friend, they know you loved them. ![]() |
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