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Grand Magnate
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Dec 08, 2014 at 12:11 PM
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I know we are not a brunch virtues in the social field but I think it would be worthy to mention what are these skills that you have learnt or have developed in a natural way and that help you in your social interactions.
I'm good as hell listening to people, looking at them in the eyes and asking questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves. I also try to put a smile to anyone, even when the most I feel like to do is crying. |
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Dec 08, 2014 at 03:21 PM
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I also try to make people smile
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Grand Magnate
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Dec 08, 2014 at 03:41 PM
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I'd wish I had moré humor sense to make people laugh. This is the best thing someone can do for another, but it can't be bought.
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Dec 08, 2014 at 06:21 PM
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When you look at people and ask them question do you make them feel uncomfortable? I am good at the same thing, but I try to hard and it makes even the biggest alpha uncomfortable because they only have to talk about themselves while I say nothing about me haha. I am pretty good at making fun of myself, which quite a few people with selfirony enjoy. I usually get along joking with both myself and others who have the same humour |
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Dec 08, 2014 at 06:51 PM
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I'm pretty good about casual chit-chat. I tend to babble and smile quite a bit - it really depends on where I am as to what topic I'll chat about. At work I will talk about my students and what we've been doing, along with listening to what's going on in the other classes. In more properly social situations it tends to go towards what people are doing on holidays (we live in a pretty isolated community), about where people are from, about places we've travelled.... honestly, there's also a lot of chit chat about weather
 I'm pretty good at babbling away but also drawing responses out of other people. Part of it is very much a learned skill, but I basically learned it through my hypomanias as it comes much more naturally then! __________________ "The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..." "I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am. |
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Dec 11, 2014 at 07:19 PM
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I'm tolerant of and sensitive to people's flaws and vulnerabilities. When they show that that's when they become real, when they make sense to me and become easier to love.
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Dec 11, 2014 at 07:43 PM
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I have a habit I can't avoid. I like to express what I like or admire in a person. I don't wait for a compliment or anything, it's my natural way. I really admire many things in many people, mainly when I lack this quality. People react in a very possitive way. |
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