Proposals for the new year

Let's see:

• stop smoking
• loose weight
• being moré sociable
• being moré constant in my French lessons
• remember all these points in 2016 list. Lol!

I'm remember when I use to write this kind of lists, i put the list in an apple and then, I buried the apple. No, it was a moré serious list than the above.
I really needed some things in my life.
Luckily, I got them.

What's your list?

Procrastinate less and be more productive
Play tennis again
Take a vacation
Get a new job
Organize my apartment

I'd be wrapped if I accompl the first 3 things on your list. That would make me really happy

To not let my irritability drag me around
To be more tolerant of things that annoy and anger me
To exercise- which would most likely help with the above

I generally don't do resolutions. But I do have one for 2015. Just one.

- Keep progressing with recovery, and don't let my recent ED relapse set me back.

It's a big one. But maybe. I'm hoping. Take care everyone. Happy new year.

Procrastination is our surname, unfortunatelly.

I'm curious. When you say "get a new job", is bc have a job and you aren't satisfied with it. Am I right? It's not that you are unemployed. Right?

I encourage you to do it . It's very important to dedícate something you really like to do, something you can feel that is significant for you and others.
Good luck!

I didn't know you have anger issues.
In the end, irritability affects mainly yourself. So, I can understand why it bothers you so much.
Yeah, perhaps it's a question of loosing some energy through physical exercise, mainly if you're a guy. You know, I say it for the testosterone thing, but friend, I think it's mainly a question of mind. A question of changing Your view about people and events.

I would daré to suggest you have a look at Golden 5 project. It has to be with Education but I'm learning to apply it to any side of my life, specially with my partner. Lol!
I will write about it in the forum. Don't worry. I hope you will find useful.

Bronzeowl, it seems as you already did a lot of work.
Good for you. Congratulations. I'm sure you will get it.
Perhaps, you don!'y already know but you have the strenght in you.
Human being is stronger than we sometimes believe.
A strong hug!

I'm a girl, lol, so it might be a hormonal thing. Or the atmosphere of my job not suiting my personality is catching up with me.

I've heard people with anger issues when they are young get more mild mannered as they age- since I started out mild mannered maybe I'm going to go the other way

I have always put anger down to frustration simply bc we are sensitive people.

No testosterone issues so. Lol!
Is it in your job where you have these anger issues?

yeah mainly the job

This is good. It means you only have to solve something in your job. It's not that you have anger issues perse.

Many of the problems with people, I'm also saying to me, come bc we have a hard time in putting on someone else's shoes. It's not that I'm saying that it's your case. I'm talking in general.

Another thing we usually to do is having a passive attitude instead of an active but controlled one and when we have our sack full we explote.

I'm giving you ideas. Surely, bc I see myself projected. I always was a tempered person, a ratial person...

Como guys! Everybody doing their lists. Only a few hours to jump onto 2015.

HAPPY NEW YEAR to all!

Lottery.
High on my list is to win the jack pot lol, although that would mean being able to take my lottery tickets back to be checked.
I don't need any more disappointment and it seems that I already know what the outcome is going to be so the don't bother.

Mmmm perhaps I should add to the list "getting my lottery tickets checked"

I neither check my lottery tickets. I think there are moré opportinities a lightnig strikes on me three times that I win the lottery.

Never, never, ever I win anything. I got a bike in the funfair bc I found on the floor what I needed to make a right combination.

But, by the way, here they say luck is for people who don't know a thing.

It said that if you accomplish your resolutions for 21 days in a row, they become an habit, they are ingrain in you. I hope you all behad well, guys!

Goals for 2015:

Learn how to socialize normally as I am a social retard!
Meditate daily.
Eat healthy as I believe what I put in my body greatly affects my state of mind.
Live in the moment.
Acceptance of the universe.

That seems pretty simple...

Acceptance of the universe? Didn't you know that there is a milti-universe?

I was talking with someone about it just a moment ago. You can see the bad or the good side of this universe. We are so get used to watch only the bad side that we can't see anything else.
I think it's a question of training our brain.