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May 03, 2011, 08:27 AM
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Last night my sisters trailer burned down. It's a total loss. I am soooooo sad right now. I don't know what to do. I don't know if this is a bp low or low because of what happened.
I wish I could help my sister, but all I can do is be there for her. 
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May 03, 2011, 08:48 AM
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thats terrible , im so sorry, all you can do is be there for her. And let her know how sad you are too. There is no point hiding it, dont hold it all in and try deal with the emotion when your alone. Just give her your love its the best thing you can offer. Tell her you are there for her.
But look after yourself, talk to others as much as you need to about it. What happens to our loved ones affects us. Xxxxxxxxxx i hope that you can all bond together in this time and realise no matter how much has been lost, no matter waht the strugggle you have each other, that there is love worth more than material goods. |
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May 03, 2011, 08:57 AM
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that really sucks. i am sorry to hear that. having that happen is a huge stress but people are able to pick up after that, more often than not. she is lucky to have such a caring sister -
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May 03, 2011, 09:23 AM
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Thank you so much
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May 03, 2011, 09:24 AM
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May 03, 2011, 09:59 AM
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(((onlymedid and sister)))
 - so sorry to hear the bad news. I pray she had insurance and will recover from this terrible loss. I hope you feel better too.
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May 03, 2011, 10:34 AM
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Thanks for the thoughts.
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 03, 2011, 06:05 PM
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thinking of you both
its ok to feel sad when things go bad, its not BP, but take care that it doesn't spiral out of control. Try to do things that are uplifting, don't feel bad if you find moments of happiness even in this struggle.
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May 03, 2011, 06:56 PM
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 03, 2011, 08:28 PM
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We're as human as the next person is and we have a right to feel sad too. This sadness is appropriate. The feelings of uncertainty because of this accident is normal. Don't put yourself down! :'(
((Only))
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May 03, 2011, 09:33 PM
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onlymedid! That is a hard thing. It's also totally natural to feel sad and not indicative of a BP thing (BlackPup's comments are totally spot-on). Do not feel guilty for happiness. Think of this... There are times when there is so much darkness. There are times when there is so much light. Most of the time though, it is a mixed bag. Good and bad, side by side. It is better to be able to see both without feeling the need to be blinded by one or the other. Does that make any sense? |
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May 04, 2011, 07:30 AM
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 04, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Now she's overmedicating herself because she is depressed. She is bipolar, too. I just don't know what to do.
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 04, 2011, 10:19 PM
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May 05, 2011, 08:26 AM
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Ok, thanks. I have never heard of that before. I will look into it. They just got an apartment yesterday, but can't move in til saturday. I'm just glad they got a place!
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May 05, 2011, 10:50 AM
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I just messaged our local radio DJ in hopes he can help get the word out about my sister. He does a LOT for the community and when I called he told me to email him with the details and he will see what he can do to help.
He is awesome!
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 08, 2011, 11:08 AM
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Well, now they have beds, a tv and my friend donated end tables, rocking chair, blankets, sheets, towels and pillows to them. Things are coming around slowly, but surely.
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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May 08, 2011, 08:18 PM
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so sorry that happened!
but glad they are getting a few things that they need and things are coming around.....I am sure people will be glad to help when they hear of the need!
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