[Lost&confused89]

last night at my apartment, I got home, 2 baskets of clothes, my son and keys to get in in my hands. Just as I pull up this new comer is literaly parked where we walk moving in, as I walk in the knee deep mud around her I mention how we cant park on the grass here... So she starts trippin out on me. Telling me in more vulgar words she doesnt care. I told her id prefer her not to swear in front of my child and she gets up in my face saying shes going to beat my ***** in front of my child. Thats when I became manic. I unlocked my dooor, got my son inside and went for my second basket of clothes she got in my face again so I pushed her out of my way and grabbed my basket. Yes I realize I shouldnt have touched her, was manic though, and momhood kicked in, so I went irrational. I called the apt complex and they said to call the cops and I knew id have been in trouble so I didnt.

Anyways, later that night I wrote a note being the bigger person, even though im usually the bad one, and taped it to her door. Apology and all, and so today she sends me a letter on my door. NO apology, telling me how wrong I was and that she gets bein a mom cuz shes a god mom and such... Which im not touching how thats nothing like being a full time mom... Anyway, the point is how am I supposed to have respect for her, and not want to just blow up.

shee started a massive fight between me and my bf. And were on the verge of ending because I just want to scream, having suicidal thoughts, etc

What do I do??:'( :'(

[faerie_moon_x]

Okay, first off something isn't right with that lady to start off. She's obviously entitled, etc. But sounds like she has moods of her own. Maybe she's untreated in something. You never know... she was already hostile and so on, then her note back.... well, irrational really.

Secondly, time to contact your support person or therapist or whoever helps you through suicidal thoughts! If it is normally your boyfriend it would be best to choose someone else today. Or if you think it is serious head to the ER if you have to. Just stay safe!!!

I probably would have reacted the same way you did if not worse. I used to have horrible neighbors and I was less then graceful when dealing with them. I'm proud of you for handling it so well. Why is this causing a fight between you and your boyfriend if you don't mind me asking?

[Lost&confused89]

The dumb letter she wrote.. dumb fight, me being mad she blamed me in the letter... so upset

[lad007]

Just think how the situation would be different if you had not said anything about the parking. All this drama could have been avoided. You were right, she should not have parked there, but she did. Don't be the parking police. I used to be the parking police myself-talking to people parking in the handicap, etc and it just got me more agitated in the end due to confrontations such as these. Next time something similar happens just let it go.

[Lost&confused89]

I couldnt let it go... I had my hands full and a 2 yr old attempting to get imto out house. Otherwise I wouldnt have. To be honest, sorry, but that comment pissed me off worse. Thanks.